Oral sex: how to make her feel good too.

What is not allowed: 1. Put pressure on her: if you put pressure on pity to "deceive" her, she will only be offended. Better tell her (more than once) about how you love oral sex, and give her the right to decide when to give you such pleasure. 2. Hold her head: this way you can hurt her neck and cut off the air supply. “Let her control the depth and rhythm,” says sexologist Jill McDevitt. You're better off: some women get turned on by blowjobs because it gives them a sense of control over a man.