How to painlessly part with your husband.

• State the reason for the divorce. Talk about what devastates you, list the problems that do not suit you. • Talk about actions, not personality. Take the case of change. What do most wives do? They shout, every day they remind their spouse what a scoundrel he is. It is better to tell your husband how painful it is for you to realize what happened, and that you cannot accept this act, this is unacceptable for you. • Burn bridges. When leaving, leave, that is, no pauses and "I need to think." Sometimes ex-spouses continue to sort things out, write messages to each other. You need to cut off all ties and not communicate. • Imagine that you have already broken up. Work out in your head a scenario that suits your situation. Write down all the little things: what you say to your husband during a conversation, how you pack things or look for a new home. All these details will help to realize that there is life after a divorce.