Desire to manipulate.

There is a category of women who use manipulation as the main feature when communicating with a man. Instead of talking or simply asking for help, the woman "stands in a pose": she looks dissatisfied, blackmails with sex, refuses to cook her spouse. This means that she was offended by the man. In families where such rules of the game operate, a rare day goes by without conflicts and quarrels. Resentment in a relationship is a very insidious thing. An offended spouse exudes negative vibes that kill all the good in a man. He does not want to earn, to try. The point, I think, is clear.