Should I give a man a loan?

Reasons why you can not give a man a loan? 1. A woman as an "airbag". Once having borrowed money, you give him a “red light” for the subsequent resolution of his financial issues. I guarantee: he will come to you for the next tranche instead of looking for a part-time job. 2. Feeling of permissiveness. Men whose loans are paid by their wives have no sense of proportion at all. They accumulate a lot of debts, and when the “hour of reckoning” approaches, they innocently declare: “Well, we are a family, is it difficult for you to pay or what?” 3. It degrades. One of the main life tasks of any man is the financial support of the family. And when all financial matters are decided by a woman, it is not surprising that after a while he lies with a beer on the couch and grows a belly.