How to find out that the person you met is not your type?

The person you're talking to is focused on himself. You agree to take a cup of coffee, and the person is talking about himself for an hour with rapt attention. Perhaps you are flooding him with questions on himself. But if not, there is a sign that this is a self-absorbed person, who cares only about his own feelings and interests. Your life and your interests will NEVER really matter to him. If you've met a classic NARCISSIST — a person who doesn't see anyone's worth except his own, then you may be sure that he will carry his narcissism throughout his entire life.