I'm not a dollar to please everyone.

The desire TO PLEASE is a normal desire! The desire to be liked by EVERYONE – here is the problem. This is an extreme degree of insecurity, an indicator of infantilism and even a certain degree of neuroticism. The more you discover your individuality and the more you are engaged in self-determination, the less thoughts of how to impress someone you have. The more you understand YOURSELF, the less the need to please EVERYONE becomes. And the paradox is that exactly such self-sufficient people are often the ones who have a lot of charisma and, as a result, many of us like them.