The point where you are now is your choice.

Why do I have such a profession? Such a relationship? The answer “because it is my choice” deprives us of the right to complain. This is clear from the example of relationships. Here you choose a partner for the best qualities, but do not tolerate his shortcomings. It turns out that you love only that part of a person with which it is convenient. But you chose everything. Life is the sum of your choices. Respect them.