For those who want to get married.

Why are you getting married? Here you are - what do you expect from marriage? You can dream from different positions: fullness and emptiness, attempts to get rid of problems or intentions to increase the joy you already have. Do you feel like a failure because you do not have a partner? Do you feel like “the best years pass”, and no one appears nearby? Do people around you ask questions about children, marital status, or having a friend that makes you nervous? If you answer yes to even one question, most likely, your desire to get married is largely based on emptiness. This is how strange alliances arise when a woman rushes to the registry office, as if jumping into the last car of a departing train - it doesn’t matter who turns out to be a fellow traveler, as long as they take her away from here as soon as possible.