Conscious love - what is it like?

The conscious lover is not trying to turn the object of his love into something in his own image, or into something that he himself has dreamed of but failed to find. Conscious lover is constantly scrutinizing the one whom he loves, trying to find hidden, maybe not yet realized, but inherent in him, the loved one, unique and unrepeatable qualities. Conscious love is always a search for conditions for the beloved to become what he can and should become - in accordance with his infinite potential for growth, development, formation, transformation. Conscious love is not something that comes by chance, by birth, by itself. It is the result of a conscious choice and a firm desire to make an effort and even a super effort on oneself.