The desire to control everyone and everything all the time.

This desire can be dictated by perfectionism, egocentrism, lack of trust and a variety of other reasons. But all these consequences have a common cause - a violation of attachment in childhood: at some point the child ceased to feel secure near his or her parents. She/he stopped trusting this world and feeling relaxed. Growing up, such children rely only on themselves. It would seem that this is absolutely great... But there is a flip side of the coin: even when they need help, they don't ask for it, since they are afraid to admit their weakness. Becoming adults, these people live in a state of constant tension and always expect some kind of trick from the world.