VIVA LA RESISTANCE
[Psychology]
July 3, 2022
Situation: Dad didn't choose mom. And dad didn't choose you. You see, mom is not okay. And you, too - after all, dad left you too. And even if this is not a divorce, mom and dad living as neighbors make it clear to you that love does not live here. You already know: love is about "deserving". Both you and your mother tried hard, that's why they didn't get it. And every time you get into a relationship, you will keep your finger on the pulse: what if he is like a dad? Will he be dissatisfied and leave you alone? And you're afraid. What to do? Realize that if a parent abandoned you, he did not do this because he was unhappy with you. His motives were within the relationship with his mother, but not with you. EVERYTHING is fine with you and you can check it in your own relationships.