The question that puts almost every second man into a stupor

"Are you flirting with me???" Here, for some reason, a previously successful guy begins to defend himself against such accusations. “No, I just… and anyway… I don’t know why you thought that…” and stuff like that. But why are you giving back at all, huh? Aren't we allowed to flirt with a girl - it's against the law? After all, it is obvious that you pay attention to it not in vain and you want the dialogue to continue. The girl is just testing you with such a question. Unsure of himself and his man will retreat and her opinion of him will immediately fall. And the confident one will just say “yes, and I have plans to continue doing this” or something like that.