Important advice.

I understand that NOT talking about your ex is too difficult and almost impossible. How many times would you not hear that "this is not possible" - the conversation about it comes up. And if you have violated this rule - be guided by another. Don't talk negatively about your ex. This will in no way help you in seduction, but will only provoke the girl into negative thoughts. The logical chain is clear - the former "all this is not like that", perhaps something is wrong with him. Yes, and in themselves such "gossip" is not worthy of you voicing them.