Emily Nagoski "As a Woman Wants"

If you want to understand the psychology of sex, to understand what your sexuality depends on, be sure to read this book! The book introduces two great ideas that you really need to consider for yourself, and even better with a partner. 1 idea: gas and brake. We all have sexy throttle and sexy brake. The book very similarly describes how this dual system works. Why do some of us take longer to ignite (slow gas), while others fire in a minute (fast gas). Why will every little thing distract someone (sensitive brake), while someone does not care what is happening around (tight brake). 2. idea: context. Sexuality always depends on the context. The same touches of a loved one will be felt differently in the bedroom, at the desk, at a romantic dinner. The context is very underestimated. And Emily takes this topic very deeply and in detail.