VIVA LA RESISTANCE
[Psychology]
May 20, 2022
It's easy to blame someone else for everything: friends, the weather, an evil boss, a bed that's too warm or lonely. This kind of thinking is called the victim syndrome. The state is largely convenient: the person-victim relieves himself of responsibility, which means that he does not feel guilty for failures. The fear of failure is so great that he prefers to simply do nothing to avoid it. And for all unfulfilled dreams and goals, you can blame someone else. But in fact, everything happens the other way around. By agreeing to take responsibility for your life, you do not become guilty of what you did or did not do. You have no one to report to. You realize that you yourself decided to lie on the couch instead of going to work. Or they themselves risked launching a project that did not pay off.