Imitation rape
Мasochistic tendencies.
Finally, one more reason for fantasies on the subject of rigid domination of a partner may be hidden in the masochistic inclinations of a lady, be the result of experiences associated with violence repressed by her. Most likely, such women, as children, experienced humiliation, pain, or restriction of their freedom, which the brain, for some reason, associated with care and love.
When the girl grew up, her body began to respond with excitement to the inflicted suffering, perpetuating this pattern: physical violence equals passion and sexual pleasure.
However, the vast majority of rape fantasies are considered the norm, because almost all women are aware of the difference between a real threat or an imaginary imitation. Should she share her feelings with you? It's up to her to decide. But if trust and love reign in your relationship, if both of you are sympathetic to each other’s weaknesses, sometimes it’s worth bringing this game to life in order to refresh your feelings a little.