Codependent Relationships. Where is the way out?

To begin with, you need to answer the question honestly: do you really want to quit this relationship? If so, why haven't you done it yet? People want a magic pill, that is to make everything happen in one fell swoop, without pain, without working on one's self, without thinking, just WHOOSH and everything is easy and good, as if this relationship never happened. So, it never was and never will be. This is infantile, childish thinking. You have to pay for everything. And sometimes you have to pay VERY dearly. The first step to resolve this problem is to understand the reasons WHY you got into it. If you don't find out the reasons and work them out, you have all the chances to be trapped into the similar painful relationship again!

I don't judge, I accept and support.

That's because there is no single model of happiness for everyone. I feel really perplexed when Nancy, a happy mother of many children, insistently advises Mary, a career woman, to have children, and Mary, in response, rolling her eyes and clicking her tongue, advises Nancy to drop everything and go to Japan, to the Hanami holiday. Why do people think that there is only one happiness model - THEIR OWN? After all, the world is so beautiful in its diversity of shapes and colors. And there is nothing more foolish than trying to fit everything and everyone into one single theory.

Three things you shouldn't expect from other people.

Don't expect people to respect you if you don't respect yourself. It is important to be kind to others, but it is equally important to be kind to yourself. Don't expect a person to suddenly change. A common misconception is that if you care deeply about someone, they will eventually stop disappointing you and change. No, it won't change. Don't expect everyone to like you. It doesn't matter how well you treat other people, there will always be at least one negative person who will criticize you. Smile, ignore and move on.

Help others.

Helping other people may not always be safe for your psychological state. We are talking about those situations when you do not want to do something, but it is inconvenient for you to refuse. Some people tend to help to the detriment of their own interests, do it on an ongoing basis. Reliability, setting the interests of others higher than their own - a vivid example of how those who were not loved in childhood deserve this love. It seems to them that without acting solely in the interests of others, nothing will work. And it works in their lives. People often use them because of their kindness and openness.

The meaning of the word "freelancer".

The word "freelancer" was originally used in the 1800s to refer to a medieval mercenary fighting for whichever country or person would pay him the most.

Scientists are close to creating a plant with schizophrenia and Alzheimer's disease.

They are going to develop a kind of catalog with all the genetic similarities between plants and animals, which in the future will allow turning plants into a model organism for studying diseases. The fact is that dysfunctions of mitochondria can cause diseases both in plants and in animals and humans. In humans, such dysfunctions lead, among other things, to various neurological and mental disorders, the researchers explain. Therefore, in the future, it may be possible to breed plants with Alzheimer's disease and schizophrenia, which will allow them to be better studied.

The Buick Wildcat EV concept helps the driver relieve stress

The company claims that the Wildcat EV concept will be a platform for testing technologies that can be used in future models of the brand. For example, artificial intelligence, aromatherapy and biometrics. These systems are able to detect the passenger's heart rate spike and activate Zen mode, dimming the cabin lights, releasing aromatic scents and activating the massage seats to normalize physiological parameters. The first mass-produced electric car from Buick will appear no earlier than 2024.

Bloomberg has calculated that electric transport reduces the consumption of oil by about 1.5 million barrels per day.

The figure is serious - it is more than a percent. True, there is a classic manipulation of facts. The headline wants everyone to think that it's about Tesla and other cars. However, the Bloomberg chart clearly shows that 2/3 of this figure falls on two and three-wheeled electric vehicles. That is, for all kinds of scooters and mopeds. Buses follow, and we are almost sure that for the sake of beauty, the pictures also included trolleybuses riding on centuries-old technologies. Well, directly four-wheeled electric vehicles are just a speck of savings. And Bloomberg also forgot to calculate how much oil is spent on creating electric vehicles and charging them.

Scientists have calculated how many aggressive alien civilizations can exist within our galaxy.

Calculations have shown that 15,785 alien civilizations may exist in the Milky Way. Further, the formulas of aggression were taken into account, showing that the chance of an advanced civilization being aggressive towards another is 0.0014%. That is, in the Milky Way, according to the equation 0.22, there are aggressive planets with aliens. However, if we take into account not only advanced civilizations but also incapable of interstellar travel like ours, the figure jumps to 4.42. The calculations were based on the Drake equation.

Forecast for the week from June 06 to June 12.

This week, many will feel an increase in intellectual activity and gaining special insight into understanding the essence of things. A great time for speaking in public in front of large masses of people - the power of the impact of the words of the speaker these days is greatly increased. Studies are going well, especially in the exact sciences and in the study of foreign languages. Intuitive knowledge of psychology helps in contacts with people. In business, trade and procurement activities and transport services may become more active. Possible love at first sight. However, the powerful energy of feelings is like a flash of lightning and cannot last long. Therefore, a bright flash of love can fade very quickly. The aspect can also be related to financial matters, inducing a strong desire in people to spend money on buying fashionable clothes and jewelry. There may be lottery wins.

Sexiest signs of the zodiac. Gemini - 6th place.

In the middle of our ranking are Gemini. Why is that? It's simple - the representatives of this sign seduce the object of their passions only half, and then take a break. They have a desire to flirt left and right in their blood, even with those who are unsympathetic to them. As a result, the interlocutor naively believes that an enchanting continuation of the acquaintance awaits him, but this happens extremely rarely. As a rule, the Gemini, having flirted a little on the side, returns to their chosen one (yes, they are rarely lonely), and the fair sex does their best to maintain the reputation of a vamp woman who dynamizes men.

4 most infantile zodiac signs among men. Scales.

The vagaries of the Libra man come out at the moment when they are categorically unsure of something, or in the case when someone from their environment achieves more, moreover, in a short time in the area that interests them greatly. They will carefully hide their emotions through feigned heroism, but this cannot continue for a long time: the moment will come and the “true face”, consisting of envy, jealousy and pettiness, will come out. Libra does not like to sort things out and, moreover, to conflict, so they will postpone a serious conversation as much as possible.

Loyalty for life: the most loyal signs of the zodiac among women. 6th place - Cancer woman.

If a Cancer woman is unhappy in a relationship, then betrayal is inevitable. Sorrow and sadness from the indifference of her husband, one might say, are pushing her to such an act. A paradoxical situation: when betrayal occurs, love for a spouse is strong, as before. They are looking for joy on the side because their soul requires warmth and understanding. When a beloved husband forgets that she is a woman, vulnerable and tender, then Cancer decides to cheat. Having committed such an act, he does not reproach himself at all: he is to blame for everything, who, with his behavior and attitude, simply forced him to take this step. If the partner broke the heart of this girl, then she recovers for a long time after the blow.

DAILY HOROSCOPE June 6th.

Capricorn♑️ Be careful with money: you may suddenly want to spend without thinking, but you definitely shouldn’t do this today. Do not rush into purchases if they were not planned before. There is a risk of acquiring expensive and beautiful, but completely unnecessary things. Aquarius♒️ Be persistent, without this today it is unlikely to succeed. Difficulties may arise where no one expected, but you will not let them become insurmountable. Working disagreements, disputes with colleagues and management are likely. You will be able to keep calm and agree with everyone. Pisces♓️ It is unlikely that you will be able to avoid minor difficulties, but you will cope with them quickly. Good ideas will come up, and all you need to do is to choose the right people to help and help make them happen. Intuition will definitely tell you who to trust and who to stay away from.

DAILY HOROSCOPE June 6th.

Libra♎️ Today it is especially important to be guided by common sense, not to be led by emotions. Given a fleeting impulse, you may say or do something that you will soon regret. Be especially careful in business negotiations and do not make promises until you are sure that you can keep them. Scorpio♏️ It will be easy to get along with people, you will quickly find a common language with both new acquaintances and those with whom you could not agree before. You can take advantage of the moment to restore long-standing business ties or make peace with those with whom you were at odds. Many will listen to your opinion and follow the advice. Sagittarius♐️ Ideas that appear today should be implemented as soon as possible. Not everyone will immediately appreciate them, but very soon it will become clear: you have conceived something wonderful. This is where allies will appear who can help in many ways. Business relations will begin with new acquaintances, which will soon take on an informal, friendly character.

DAILY HOROSCOPE June 6th.

Cancer♋️ Everything will work out if you don't rush. The day may not turn out as well as you would like, but it still will not bring unsolvable problems. Unexpected news is possible, including from old acquaintances, whose fate you are worried about. It is possible that because of this you will have to change plans, postpone some things and focus on others. Leo♌️ Don't worry about the little things and don't get frustrated if things don't go according to plan. This day will hardly pass quietly, but it will not bring serious problems either. Working issues can be successfully resolved, because of which there have been a lot of unrest and disputes lately. For many Lions, the experience gained earlier will help them quickly cope with new tasks. Virgo♍️ It is worth focusing on the most important and difficult things: today you will have a chance to do them perfectly. Not everything will immediately turn out as we would like, but you will not abandon your plans, do not quit what you started. Old acquaintances, people with whom you have previously collaborated more than once, can help.

DAILY HOROSCOPE June 6th.

Aries♈️ Imagine, invent, come up with something new. The usual methods today are unlikely to help you succeed, you will have to look for other ways to achieve the goal. Most likely, all decisions will need to be made independently, there will be no opportunity to consult with someone, to agree on joint actions. Taurus♉️ Start the day with serious business conversations. The morning is perfect for discussing professional plans, meeting with potential partners. It will be useful to take the initiative, it will be possible to speed up some work processes. Later, there will be a favorable time for making deals. Gemini♊️ Do not soar in the clouds and do not invent anything. Today it is important to look at things realistically, to objectively assess both the situation and our own capabilities. This will be enough to cope with the problems that have arisen recently and achieve new goals. Try to keep all the promises you made before: today it is especially important for your reputation.

Sex is an addiction.

We are addicted to intimacy, just like sweets. Why? Sex causes the release of hormones into the body, the main hormone is ENDORPIN. Habit? Sex is addictive to this feeling and a real addiction.

Warm salad with burrata.

To begin with, bake the eggplant and bell pepper. I cut it arbitrarily, a little salt, butter and into the oven on the grill, 250 degrees, 20-30 minutes or until soft and golden brown. It remains to put in a salad bowl, add tomato, cucumber, burrata, fragrant sunflower or olive oil, chili pepper with salt and balsamic.

The border is LOCKED.

We lock our apartment, guard our car with alarms, check if our backpack is locked, and if our wallet and credit cards are safe. But often, while keeping things safe, we forget to take care of our inner security. Each of us has our own private world. And only YOU have the right to decide where its boundaries, who to let into it, and who - absolutely not. Healthy psychological boundaries are: - Awareness of the value of one's opinion. - Conformity to internal attitudes and priorities. - Careful handling of personal information. - Understanding your own wants and needs. - The ability to say NO. - The ability to respect others' privacy. Personal boundaries serve us as a reliable FARE guard, protecting us from unnecessary intrusions and stress, and preserve our inner harmony.