How to save a marriage on the brink of divorce?

1. Start with yourself. Don't try to change your partner. It's impossible. Honestly and calmly analyze: what are you doing wrong? For example: you control every step of your husband, you criticize him. 2. Learn constructive dialogue. Replace reproaches with "I-statements". Not “You didn’t throw out the trash again, how many times should I remind you!”, But “I get upset when house cleaning agreements are violated.” 3. Take an interest in his affairs. Let's be honest: do you know how your spouse lives? What does he dream about, what career plans does he make, how does he imagine the perfect day off? Talk to each other, share experiences and spiritual secrets. It builds intimacy and builds trust.

Don't wait for inspiration.

Don't waste time waiting for the phantom muse. You should realize that inspiration is fickle. If your morning wasn't as cheerfully as you wanted, that's no reason to lose the whole day. Self-control and planning are the FOUNDATIONS for moving forward.

Don't multitask

If you feel like you're taking on too much, it may mean that the reason isn't even the overload itself. It's more likely that you're trying to perform many tasks at once. Quality of performance and productivity thus suffer! Doing ONE thing at a time will allow you to do it properly, without too much physical or mental effort.

Should you live with an alcoholic husband?

On the one hand, the question is strange, the answer suggests itself. It would be necessary to run away from such happiness without looking back. On the other hand, everything is not so simple. If you have already connected your life with a man who drinks heavily, then you definitely got into a co-dependent relationship. Marriage with a drinking man is a complete disappointment and bitterness. In fact, the wives of drunkards adapt and somehow live, or rather exist. Codependent relationships can last for years.

5 signs you're being used in a relationship

1. Reproach for past mistakes. Reminding them every time to induce guilt is pure manipulation. 2. Your interests, victories or defeats are not a reason for conversation. In a healthy relationship, everyone's life is important. 3. Relatives worry about you. You can’t fool other people - they look at your relationship from the outside. 4. The partner claims "that it will be better for everyone." A partner who achieves results with such words is manipulating you. 5. Your "no" doesn't matter. If your “no” is an empty phrase, and the partner’s actions are more and more like violence, put an end to these relationships.

How should you invest in relationships?

Hug and support. Smile! Make breakfast! Restrain yourself and not smash your partner in public, giving him a chance to save face! Sex must have a foreplay, and this is not the responsibility of only men. Your partner also expects surprises and initiatives from you. Rest and do not blame everyone for your eternal fatigue. To fulfill promises. Thank. Imagine holidays. Hear partner. Talk about your desires. Be prepared for rejection.

Save face.

Try to control yourself in the heat of an argument. Respond calmly to criticism and move on to healthy communication: - Okay, I hear you. What do you really want to tell me? This method of dealing with unfair criticism helps you "save face," while reassuring your interlocutor that you understand her/him and that you are interested in his or her opinion.

There is no such thing as an angry person.

In the sense that no one feels anger for no reason. People get angry when they are either hurt or scared. There are no bad people as well, however sometimes others' idea of good and bad doesn't match ours. There is no problem that cannot be solved. There are problems that cannot be solved at the particular moment because of a lack of knowledge and possibilities. Often the only solution is to accept the impossibility of solving it. If you lose an opportunity, it will always be followed by the next one, but in a different time and under different circumstances.

Four-legged robot goalkeeper.

Engineers have trained a four-legged Mini Cheetah robot to act as a football goalkeeper, analyzing the ball's flight path and jumping to intercept it. Robochepard weighing nine kilograms completes the movement in just 0.9 seconds. He is trained in three movements: shift to the side, jump and dive - jump to the side, followed by a fall to intercept the ball flying into the bottom corner. When a ball is thrown, the robot determines its position using a depth camera, and then selects the desired movement and its trajectory. After that, the low-level controller calculates the torques so that the interception is successful.

Nicotine blocks the production of estrogen in women.

Even small doses of nicotine block the production of estrogen in the brain tissue in women. This harms the functioning of the nervous system and genital organs. These conclusions were made by molecular biologists from the European College of Neuropsychopharmacology.

The heaviest bony fish in the world was discovered off the coast of Portugal.

She weighs almost three tons. The carcass of a dead moon-fish weighing 2,744 kilograms was caught off the coast of the Azores - this is an absolute record for bony fish. Its height is 3.5 meters, and its length is 3.6. Marine biologists weighed the moon fish using a winch and industrial scales, and then opened it up. They took samples of DNA and stomach contents. Moon-fish lives in tropical and temperate waters of all oceans. Their exact number is unknown. In spring and summer, the population in the northwest Atlantic is estimated at 18,000 individuals.

Plasmonic resonance will help determine the maturity of the whisky.

British chemists have proposed a new whiskey quality control method based on the formation of gold nanoparticles due to the reaction between specific chemical components of the drink with an aqueous solution of hydrogen tetrachloroaurate. The nanoparticles manifest themselves as a peak in the optical transmission spectra due to plasmon resonance. The method works at room temperature and is very fast, making it easier for whiskey blenders.

Earth may seem uninhabited to alien astronomers.

To determine the conditions on exoplanets, terrestrial astronomers analyze the properties of their surface and atmosphere using infrared and ultraviolet radiation. The spectra of the Earth, its thermal radiation, can correspond to both favorable characteristics for life and unfavorable ones. At the same time, it seriously differs in different parts of the planet and in different seasons. That is, it is impossible to obtain a single representative sample of the Earth's thermal radiation spectrum. This was shown by analysis of data from an infrared probe aboard NASA's Aqua satellite. This means that alien astronomers from a distant galaxy may not understand that there is life in the solar system. It will be very difficult to observe the dynamic Earth, analyze and interpret the data obtained.

The largest artificial waterfall.

The largest artificial waterfall is built into the Liebu International Building skyscraper in the Chinese city of Guiyang. An hour of operation of the waterfall costs the company 100 euros and recently, in order to save money, it is included only for special events.

Chinese scientists have taught cows to produce human milk.

According to foreign media, scientists from China conducted an experiment by introducing proteins inherent in the human body into the embryos of Goldstein cows. The scientists then placed these fetuses in surrogate cows. In the future, it can be used for artificial feeding of infants.

Which indoor plants suit your zodiac sign. Capricorn.

By nature, measured Capricorns, astrologers recommend paying attention to the rather slowly sprouting gifts of the fauna: for example, silver jade, lithops and various types of ficuses. Very handy for the representatives of this sign of the horoscope will be a money tree. Most Capricorns are generously endowed with perseverance and hard work. And this plant absorbs heavy and negative energy, helps to make the house a resting place for body and soul.

Which signs fall in love once and for all, and which - five times a day. 2nd place - Libra.

Unexpected turn! The silver medal goes to the windy Libra, in whose notebook there is usually no free space. In fact, everything is explained in an elementary way - and not at all by the duality of Libra's nature: just love and romance are, you know, two big differences! So an impressive list of victories on the love front is one thing, but true love for life is quite another. It is on her that Libra will marry. Then. Forty years old. When they find. May be. Not sure.

4 men of the zodiac who are difficult to incite to cheat. The man is Capricorn.

Insidious friends came to Capricorn and invite him to go fishing? Calm down, if Capricorn goes, then it will be fishing, and not something else. In general, an earthly man would prefer to lie down on the sofa and take a nap - what betrayals, what other walks on the women? Do you really think that a man wants to lose you because of a fleeting affair? Yes, for nothing in the world.

Secret weaknesses. Aries.

Secret weaknesses. Aries. Aries biggest weakness is taking on more than he can handle. Aries is not used to hearing or saying “no”; for representatives of this sign, refusal is, in principle, something unthinkable. And no matter how much Aries carries on his shoulders, he is ready to take more and more. More tasks, more obligations, more responsibilities and in the end...more stress. After all, even heroes like Aries need rest, so astrologers strongly recommend representatives of this sign to listen to themselves more often and learn to refuse, because it’s better to do one project, but do it efficiently and on time, than break your head, rush from one task to another, catastrophically nervous and doing nothing.

Daily horoscope October 18th.

Capricorn♑️ Try not to build illusions. Today it will be easy to wishful thinking, but this can lead to very unpleasant situations. And if you evaluate both your strengths and the situation realistically, you will understand how to succeed. Aquarius♒️ Great day from a business point of view. You will achieve a lot if you take the initiative. There will be no difficulties that you could not overcome. You can discuss work issues, agree with someone on joint actions. Finding allies will be much easier than you thought. Pisces♓️ A good day to meet people you would like to make a good impression on. It will not be difficult to please even those who are usually critical and notice only other people's shortcomings. Thanks to your charm, you will find new allies. Some Pisces will have friends they can rely on in any situation.