What is NURU massage and how to do it.

Nuru is a Japanese erotic massage technique originating in the city of Kawasaki. The technique requires one or more naked massagers to rub and slide over the client's naked body after all participants have smeared themselves with a tasteless, odorless massage lotion. The word comes from Japanese and translates as "slippery/smooth". Nuru practitioners use a tasteless and clear lotion that is made from seaweed leaves. The gel is applied by hand, all over the body of the client and masseur. During the massage, participants will try to get as much physical contact as possible, masseurs often use their entire body and even touch their face.

Condom prejudice.

Using a condom does not affect the quality of orgasm. The only way a condom can affect sex is to prolong it. The sensations of a man are slightly smoothed out, which helps to keep premature ejaculation.

Is it possible to keep a man with children?

Women naively believe that as soon as the first child is born in a young family, you can relax and stop working on relationships. After all, the baby is so cute, and dad is so happy. Where will he go now - it is necessary to educate the heir. The fact is that men and women have different attitudes to the appearance of children. And if the husband has no feelings for his wife, then the little fidgets will become only a weapon for manipulation.

Questions to help spouses understand.

I have prepared for you questions that you can ask each other during a conversation: • What is the relationship between us? • What needs to be done to get them back on track? • Is there a third person? • Is there love? • Is it possible to live without insults? With positive answers, you can start talking about the cause of the insults and possible ways to eliminate them.

Turn off "teacher mode"!

Some ladies already on the first date begin to load topics about family responsibilities, threaten with a finger if the gentleman has his own views on the main life issues. An edifying tone in dealing with men has never brought success. In general, the most thankless task is to try to remake a person. But many women believe that over the years their husband will definitely change. You just need to "re-educate" him correctly. A terrible mistake that has already destroyed millions of families.

Is it worth keeping a man if he decides to leave?

The answer is obvious: you won’t be forced to be nice. Any woman understands this. However, for some reason it does exactly the opposite. She can be understood. In fact, such a reaction to a breakup is normal, it is the strongest stress. At first, you are shocked by the fact that you are being abandoned. Then you deny that this is possible, his decision seems like nonsense, a mistake. Then you get angry and bargain. In the third stage of living through a breakup, you're trying to get it all back, no matter what the cost. The red light turns on: “He's mine! I can fix everything! We should be together!".

What not to do in a conflict.

Push a partner. You can not categorically demand that the husband accept your point of view. Demand the impossible. That is, for a person to give up his principles or vital interests. Such things destroy relationships and do not bring happiness. Tolerate. Sometimes we hope that the person himself will understand what we do not like. As a result, we endure for a long time and then explode. Such an explosion can be a very difficult test for a relationship. Blackmail. That is, issue ultimatums, demand something with the words "Otherwise I ...". It may even work, but later it will turn against you. Throw tantrums. Showing emotions is a must. But it is important to communicate adequately, controlling yourself as much as possible.

How to relax to be more productive.

The brain needs a break. The more we are stressed, the more overloaded the brain. Stress hormones are produced, anxiety wakes up. And now we are no longer able to think clearly - and here it is not far from mistakes. To keep yourself in good shape, I advise you to do timers with breaks. You can try several options and choose the most suitable one. For example: 25/5, 52/17. The first figure is the time of work, the second is the rest.

Strive for balance.

We waste a lot of energy in vain, because different aspects of our life - both external and internal - contradict each other. You may be held back by a colleague who does not want you to be promoted, by friends who laugh at your goals, or by your own fears and doubts. Take some time and try to unravel the conflicts that have accumulated in your life and find ways to resolve them. Sometimes all it takes is changing one thing. Sometimes you need a long-term plan to get rid of toxic environments or beliefs that are holding you back.

Devaluation - what is it and why?

Depreciation is the removal of value from objects or relationships so that they become less meaningful and cannot affect you. They can't upset you, hurt you, change you, or at least affect you in some way. This is one way of psychological defense. It is used by the legendary fox in Aesop's fable, saying that "the grapes are green," and thus, not worth her effort. And the whole point is that she just can't get those grapes and tries to soothe her pain by devaluing them. Depreciation often kills a relationship by not allowing it to experience the transformation it is meant to experience.

Frustration - what is it and why?

In short, the process of removing rose-colored glasses. Letting go of a fascination that was not the quality of the object of fascination, but something of yours, contrived. Encountering reality, as it were. Disillusioned with what the object of your fascination is not, you can finally see what it really is. And start to interact with it without fantasies. As an example, the man opposite is not a guru, but just a good specialist in his field. And that is often much more valuable than a guru. For it is real and close.

We can't give up expectations.

Especially those really essential to us and affect our deepest needs. That’s why we are often offended by those closest to us, or those with whom we have a deep relationship. Expectations suddenly reveal all of our vulnerability, which is all the more difficult to show to someone who has not lived up to them. That's why, when you get a message about a sudden evening sickness, you try only to colorlessly reply, "Well, all right, get well..." - and hang up, feeling a lump in your chest and stomach. Or a hole that isn't filled at all. Eastern wisdom suggests giving up expectations. Just take things as they are.

Why are we offended?

We are offended only when we have unreasonable expectations that weren’t destined to come true, and that are difficult to refuse. For example, someone has agreed to spend a pleasant intimate evening with you, and the day before (or even half an hour after the appointed time) they call and say that they feel sick and won’t come... A familiar story? It’d seem that the reason is valid, but how much resentment rises!

About resentment and childhood relationships.

Recognizing your own grievances or, at least, an ability to identify them, is already the first step to growing up. Resentment is a childish pattern of behavior. Typically, when people talk about childish behavior patterns, they mention it with disdain and underlying criticism, wanting to shame the person they are talking about. In my view, childlike behavior patterns are simply signs of what level a person is at now and what their actual needs are. A child's level is no worse than an adult's. It just needs to be understood that it has its own tasks.

Here's how it happens.

In 1912, Theodore Roosevelt was scheduled to give a campaign speech in Wisconsin, but he was assassinated en route. Careful preparation for the speech protected him from death, because the bullet hit the 50-page speech stored in his pocket.

Here is the series!

The longest-running series, Guiding Light, aired on television from 1952 to 2009, has 18,262 episodes, which will take 594 days and 1 hour to watch continuously.

The Dog Surfing World Championship was held in Northern California.

More than fifty dogs from all over the country took part in the unique competition. Surfer dogs competed in different weight categories. By the way, the Norcal Dog Surfing event & World Championships is an annual competition founded in 2016 and all funds raised during the championship go to charity.

Women like men with small dogs in their arms.

These conclusions were reached by Spanish scientists from the University of Jaén during a study involving almost 300 female students. The participants liked it more when the dog was present in the photo.

Sea sponges can sneeze.

Sea sponges - simple creatures without a brain - know how to sneeze. So they remove garbage and waste from the body. The secreted mucus is a delicacy for fish and other underwater inhabitants.

In 25 years, Antarctica's ice shelves have lost twice as much ice as previously thought.

Since 1997, the ice shelves of Antarctica have lost not 6 trillion tons of ice, but 12 - that is, twice as much as scientists thought. NASA experts came to such conclusions. Ice shelves act as a support for melting ice, preventing it from reaching the ocean directly. Due to the loss of their mass, they have weakened, from this the rate of global sea level rise is increasing.