Between love and neurosis. Continuation.

Indeed, love is often confused with neurosis (emotional addiction). In mass culture, love is sung - suffering, drama. And the more pain in love, the stronger it is considered. And almost sacred! Remember how many songs and poems have been written on the theme of unhappy love, and how many films and novels. How many sayings and sayings exist about love: and that it will suddenly appear, and that it is a cross that must be carried, and that you can truly love only once, and so on. But in fact, it is not about love at all, but about neurosis. O disease!

Between love and neurosis.

From a recent work with a client who is in a dependent relationship. She described for a long time all the nasty things that happen in her family, and in the end she justified what was happening: “well, I love him and what can I do ...”. Since the concept of “love” is quite complex and ambiguous, many labels are hung on it, I suggested that she try to refuse it. And then a sacramental phrase sounded: then, if I endure all this, then what is the matter with me? And why am I doing this? I do it myself...

Bioengineers have developed artificial skin, like a squid.

Squids have special structures that allow them to change skin color in response to the external properties of their environment, as well as for camouflage, communication, and courtship. Researchers have adapted this process to create artificial skin that retains heat. They repeated the arrangement of elements in the squid's body to create a material they called PIskin. It can kill almost all bacteria and fungi, while the low freezing point means it can withstand low temperatures and is less likely to dry out.

Intuition makes it difficult to expose lies.

Scientists conducted a series of experiments in which 1445 people took part. They had to guess whether the handwritten statements and videos about the student's activities on campus were true or false. Study participants who relied on intuition to detect lies, or who used multiple factors to make a decision, did no better than those who answered at random. However, those subjects who focused solely on the level of detail in the reports could distinguish truth from lies with an accuracy of up to 79%.

Brand of alcoholic drinks Twisted Tea has created briefs for any self-respecting man.

They will not only hold your beer while you walk around the apartment, but also cool the most important thing in the summer. The cost is about $40.

Scientists have found a secret ingredient in Leonardo da Vinci's paintings.

Scientists have discovered that Renaissance artists such as Leonardo da Vinci and Sandro Botticelli mixed egg yolk with oil paint to make paintings resist moisture and crack or yellow. Experts have found that adding eggs to oil paintings prevents the paint from breaking down. Perhaps, thanks to this, the canvases were able to survive in good condition until our time.

AI will put up to 300 million employees out of work in the next few years.

Based on the analysis of data on professional tasks in Europe and the United States, experts came to the conclusion that AI could put 300 million people out of work around the world. If AI achieves the abilities promised by the developers, then the number of jobs will be significantly reduced. Office workers are a group that could be especially vulnerable to these AI marvels. Lawyers and administrative workers have become especially attractive targets for AI. In this regard, the heads of tech companies, engineers and researchers asked to suspend "large-scale AI experiments" - they threaten society. We are talking about an open letter published on Future of Life, which has collected over a thousand signatures. Among the signatories are the director of SpaceX, Tesla and Twitter Elon Musk and the co-founders of Apple, Skype, Pinterest, Ripple - that is, Steve Wozniak, Jaan Tallinn, Evan Sharp and Chris Larsen

People without regular sex become dumber.

US scientists conducted a test and found that those who have sex several times a week have better results in verbal and spatial exercises. And those who rarely encounter sex are more likely to experience depression and severe stress, which reduces a person’s mental abilities.

Robot Dogs from Boston Dynamics.

Robot dogs from Boston Dynamics now make sense - enthusiasts have written a script for them that will teach the iron pet to clean the house. Thanks to him, Spot is better oriented in space and can remember where this or that thing should be. Walking around the house and noticing a discrepancy, the robot will immediately drop everything and rush to put everything in its place.

Ranvoo has introduced the AICE 3 neck conditioner.

It can reduce the temperature of the air around you by 10°C, and thanks to a special air outlet, it cools not only the neck, but the entire body. They promise autonomy for 12 hours of fan operation, or up to 6 hours in active cooling mode. The price starts at $400.

Italy became the first country to ban ChatGPT.

The local regulator accused the developers of the bot of violating the law on personal data. Changes to the work of the OpenAI AI assistant must be made within 20 days or they will pay a large fine. OpenAI denies all accusations, but the case goes to court and subsequent proceedings, for which the company will be obliged to suspend the development of ChatGPT. And it can take years.

Daily horoscope 9 April.

Capricorn♑️ Start the day with the most important and difficult tasks: you will surely cope with them perfectly. You don't have to push yourself to get the desired result. Circumstances will develop in the best way for you. Many things will come easy. If you need help, you will surely get it. Aquarius♒️ The start of the day will not be easy. It will be difficult to remain calm, you may worry about things that you would not pay attention to at other times. People around you will interfere more often than usual in your affairs, sometimes pretty annoying. But soon the situation will change for the better, you will tune in a positive way, you will feel freer and more confident. Pisces♓️ Focus on useful things. If you do not waste time today, you will have time for a lot. Thanks to your efforts, the problems that bother loved ones will be solved. Pleasant events in the family are likely, changes for the better in relations with relatives. And you will be able to reconcile those who were in a quarrel.

Daily horoscope 9 April.

Libra♎️ You will have a good, but rather tiring day. It is possible that most of it will have to be devoted to very boring cases. Although you will try to take them seriously, you will still be distracted from time to time. Therefore, there may be minor errors, some omissions. Do not be too lazy to check everything once again. Scorpio♏️ It is better not to start the day with important conversations. In the morning, even the closest people can misunderstand you, be offended by innocent remarks, and ignore requests. However, over time, the influence of positive trends will increase, and in the afternoon it will become much easier to negotiate with others. Sagittarius♐️ The beginning of the day will be successful if you do not rush into decisions. Common sense and foresight will be especially important when it comes to finances. Before entering into transactions or buying something, make sure that you have collected all the necessary information, understand the situation, and not just follow someone else's advice.

Daily horoscope 9 April.

Cancer♋️ Don't get frustrated over trifles at the start of the day. This time is unlikely to pass quietly: disagreements and disputes, unpleasant conversations with loved ones are possible. Unfortunate financial losses, unsuccessful transactions are not excluded. However, over time, the influence of positive trends will increase, you will feel more confident and free. Leo♌️ Today it will be easy for you to understand what is in the soul of others. Intuition will help you quickly find a common language with new acquaintances, make friends with those with whom you previously maintained only formal relations. Relatives will willingly support your ideas, try to help in their implementation. Virgo♍️ Take your time and don't let others rush you. You will achieve success in many matters if you make informed decisions and do not make promises under the influence of fleeting emotions. Before changing plans, consider whether it will really benefit you. Perhaps you will understand that it is better not to adapt to circumstances, but to try to change them.

Daily horoscope 9 April.

Aries♈️ Any meetings should be scheduled for the first half of the day. It is at this time that it will be easy for you to get along with others, to agree on something with loved ones and with new acquaintances. And you can also go on trips: they will go even better than you expected. Taurus♉️ Be persistent in business, and you will achieve what seemed completely fantastic recently. The day promises pleasant acquaintances for Taurus, who will go on trips or attend some unusual events. There will be an opportunity to do something new and interesting. Some representatives of the sign will find unexpected uses for their talents. Gemini♊️ The day is good for important things. Dealing with them will be easier than you thought: circumstances will turn out well, great ideas will appear in time, there will be people nearby who you can rely on. Old acquaintances will be happy to help in solving serious issues, and those with whom you recently met for the first time will not stand aside.

What kind of girls are suitable for Aries Men? Continuation.

Aries easily and gracefully overcomes any obstacles, jumps over abysses, behind him you feel like behind a stone wall. Get ready for adventure and all sorts of activities: you will never get bored with this sign. He is the most active, the most cheerful. Easy-going and expects the same lightness from a partner. Aries is easily charged with ideas and enjoys changes like a child. Invite a representative of this sign to extreme rafting, present a certificate for a parachute jump, go conquering mountains together - and you will win his heart seriously and for a long time. Astrologers specify that, although representatives of this zodiac sign are looking for bright partners, not only appearance is important to them, but also the inner world of a person.

What kind of girls are suitable for Aries Men?

They like beautiful and smart girls who are not easy to get and whose attention must be fought for. Most suitable for Aries men are Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius. They hardly find a common language with the Cancer girls, Libra, Virgo and Capricorn. Since Aries men are very energetic, they are looking for a man who will also lead an active lifestyle and play sports. They are intrigued by the intelligence and sense of humor in girls. Such individuals also like versatile persons who are successful in all areas of life. To get along with Aries, you yourself must be reckless and happily ride a bike on Sunday mornings, and not sleep until dinner. It is no coincidence that its symbol is a ram.

What are Aries Men in a relationship?

These personalities are ready for anything to win the heart of their beloved lady. They will be very persistent and determined. Aries men are capable of doing romantic things to make a girl fall in love with them. However, they sometimes find it difficult to express their feelings. These men do not always know how to keep their emotions under control, so they can throw tantrums and show anger towards their partner.

Innocentness is the main feature of these zodiac signs. Cancer.

Cancer is a simpleton, but not a fool. Cancer does not like to stand out from the crowd, so he prefers familiarity and is always ready to lend his shoulder to help. Their gentleness is considered weakness, but Cancer has its own criteria for those with whom you can be ingenuous and those who should stay away from. Cancerians love to feel needed, they will listen with pleasure and help with advice and deed. But if you deceive him once, you won’t be able to use his good nature again.

Signs that have the highest compatibility with a Scorpio woman. Cancer.

Hypnotic, magnetic, mysterious - yes, Scorpio is like that. It would seem - why should she combine with someone, is she good enough alone? But the guys from the zodiac circle do not give up, and the three most persistent signs nevertheless decided to get close to Pluto's ward. Let's find out who these lucky ones are. Scorpio and Cancer. That same modest Cancer will be able to get along with Scorpio. And why should children from the same element share, especially since their water is different? The unshakable and strong ice of Scorpio will crush the steam of Cancer. Scorpio dominates, and Cancer enjoys playing second fiddle - an ideal relationship (well, almost). Cancer is ready to obey, and Scorpio just needs not to go too far and not offend the Moon's pet with criticism and claims.