Oral Sex. Important Points.

The first thing that should be there is Enthusiasm. If you are not ready to fully immerse yourself in the process, it's better not to start and wait for the right mood so you don’t feel obligated. Position. Let the man sit up straight or stand – it will be easier for you. Most guys are visual, so the view might be important to them. Try to keep one hand, or better both, on his body, it will be very pleasant for him. Don’t forget to use your hands. Men are unlikely to feel the difference between hands and mouth during oral sex, so do what is most comfortable for you. Let your hands be an extension of your tongue.

Feelings You Must Forget

There are feelings that cause you discomfort and, moreover, can harm your life. They destroy your relationships, your inner comfort, confidence, and motivation. Feelings you must forget: 1. The feeling of belief in the ideal. There is nothing ideal in the world. It's impossible. Everything can be made even better. Without the absence of an unattainable ideal, there is no striving for perfection. Otherwise, it leads to degradation. 2. The feeling of loneliness. This feeling is unproductive, and consequently, it is laziness. Laziness is the absence of desire. Without desire, one can only be lonely. It's a paradoxical feeling.

Feelings That Hinder Our Lives

3. The feeling of importance. You are not important. What matters is how you can be useful to others. And vice versa. 4. The feeling that you owe someone something. You owe nothing to anyone since birth. Except to yourself. This is a fact. It cannot be disputed. 5. The feeling of waiting. Don't wait for anyone or anything if it hasn't already happened. Look for new ways, other opportunities. Have a different plan. Waiting is the lot of the lazy. 6. The feeling that someone owes you something. No one owes you anything. With this logic, you owe someone something. But you owe nothing to anyone.

Feelings that hinder us from living

7. Feeling of despair. Forget it. Only euphoria. Only pleasure. Do what you want, not what others want you to do. There are no two identical life experiences. Experience is always unique. 8. Feeling of fear. Fear and self-preservation are different things. While you are afraid, you are inactive. Inactivity is laziness. Laziness is loneliness. You know the rest. 9. Feeling that someone is right. Until proven, everything is a lie. 10. Feeling of incompetence. Humans are teachable. Always and everywhere. If it is not so, it is not a human.

Feelings That Hinder Us From Living

11. The feeling that life is passing you by. Quit. 12. The feeling of responsibility. It should not be a feeling. It should be a fact. 13. The feeling of resentment. Don't hold grudges. It's just people. Their job is to let you down. 14. The feeling of shame. If you did everything right, you should not be ashamed. If someone did something wrong — don't be resentful. Shame is just a substitute for this feeling. 15. The feeling of having no choice. There is always a choice! 16. The feeling of panic. Remember. We will all die anyway. While you are alive, get rid of everything unnecessary.

UFC 306 Tournament with Special Effects in Las Vegas

The UFC 306 tournament took place in a spherical arena in Las Vegas. 'Fights of the Future' were equipped with so many special effects that the event became the highest-grossing in the history of the fighting promotion - organizers earned $22 million in ticket sales.

First Space Tourists Conduct Spacewalk and Return Safely

The first space tourists in history to perform a spacewalk have successfully returned to Earth - the SpaceX spacecraft landed normally in the Gulf of Mexico. During the mission, which lasted five days, the team reached a record altitude of 1400 km (farther than anyone has flown since Apollo 17 in 1972) and conducted several experiments in orbit, including studying the effects of cosmic radiation on the human body.

Tesla Semi Catches Fire on California Road

In California, a Tesla Semi electric truck caught fire on the road. Firefighters needed 189,000 liters of water to extinguish it. The incident was resolved only after 16 hours, and firefighters even had to deploy a plane.

The 34th Ig Nobel Prize Ceremony at MIT

The 34th Ig Nobel Prize ceremony was held at MIT - a humorous analog to the Nobel Prize for unusual and amusing research. The chemistry prize went to Dutch scientists for devising a method to separate drunk worms from sober ones; the physiology prize went to Japanese researchers who discovered that many mammals can breathe through their anus; and the physics prize went to an American for studying the swimming capability of a dead trout. The probability theory prize was awarded for proving that a coin lands on the same side it started on in 51% of cases after being flipped 350,757 times.

China Developing its Own Reusable Rockets

Reusable space rockets like those of Elon Musk will soon be available in China. Several local startups are developing similar models. Recently, a successful test of one such rocket by Landspace took place - it reached a height of 10 km and then gently landed back. It is promised that the rocket will be able to carry up to 21 tons of cargo into orbit, and the first full launches are expected to start next year.

Doctors Performed Surgery from 9300 Kilometers Away

Scientists from Switzerland performed surgery on a live pig that was 9300 km away from them - the pig was located in Hong Kong. Surgeons were able to work in real-time because the communication delay was no more than 300 ms. Using PS controllers, the doctors performed an endoscopy and a stomach wall biopsy.

Tesla Launches Gigafactory Train

Tesla has launched its electric Gigafactory Train. It will run from Erkner station east of Berlin to Tesla South, 32 km away. The train's capacity is 500 people. It transports not only Tesla employees but also ordinary passengers for free. Up to 4500 employees (considering three 8-hour shifts) are planned to be transported on the Giga Train. According to forecasts, the Giga Train will save 50 tons of carbon dioxide emissions compared to other trains.

Horoscope for September 16

Capricorn: Today you are endowed with enormous energy and will be able to achieve 100% results in all endeavors. There is a high probability that you will make very useful acquaintances and find like-minded people. Aquarius: It's time for changes, time to think about development and new large-scale projects. But one person alone is not a warrior. Review your contacts, look for people who can be useful to you, help with actions or advice. Think about who can provide you with support. Pisces: Today you will face rejection and criticism, and you will be openly provoked. Don’t give in, ignore the barbs and ‘defeat’ the troublemaker with a great mood.

Horoscope for September 16

Libra: This day is better devoted to yourself. Do what benefits and pleases you. Go for wellness treatments, visit a beauty salon, engage in self-education. But conserve your energy, it's not advisable to overwork yourself today. Scorpio: A tense day, circumstances will change not in your favor. But there is no time to despair, gather yourself, put aside emotions, and act calmly, measuredly, and thoughtfully. Pull yourself together, don't be ruled by emotions. Sagittarius: Today, someone who is upset with you will remind you of themselves and try to provoke a quarrel to "give payback." Try to negotiate calmly with them, the grudge did not come out of nowhere, admit your mistake. Look for ways to reconcile.

Horoscope for September 16

Cancer: You will have more worries, you will not only have to deal with your own problems, but also participate in solving others' problems. To lift your mood and relieve tension, treat yourself to gastronomic delights at the end of the day. Leo: Not everything will go as you would like, but don't get irritated. Treat failures as experience. Maintain a positive attitude in difficult situations. If possible, go shopping, the day is favorable for purchases, especially if you are planning to update your wardrobe. Virgo: The stars predict a meeting with a person who will offer you a very tempting business proposal that you should consider. The day is also suitable for organizing your finances: paying bills, reminding debtors about yourself, opening a savings account.

Horoscope for September 16

Aries: It's time to reveal your cards. If asked for explanations, don't dodge but speak the truth. Your charm, eloquence, and persuasive ability will help you navigate tricky situations and achieve consensus. Taurus: In the first half of the day, the stars advise avoiding communication and important decisions. Your mood might not be the best, and luck is clearly not on your side. However, after lunch, things will improve, and you can confidently tackle your tasks. Gemini: You'll have the chance to take on a leadership role and showcase your best qualities. Luck will also be on your side in love matters, and you'll make a lasting impression.

How personal boundaries with close ones might sound

1. I respect your opinion, but I will make the decision based on my values and desires; 2. What you are saying makes me uncomfortable, let's drop this topic; 3. I'm sorry you don't like my choice, but it is mine and it suits me personally; 4. I would like to be alone today, I need to rest and recharge.

Desires Keep Us Alive

As long as we have desires, we have life. Wanting a bouquet of ranunculus for a birthday, a new bra/sweater/shirt, a fresh manicure, breakfast at a favorite café or a new place, a trip to the neighboring city and a picnic there, cooking a delicious dish from a new recipe, growing a blog to 10,000 subscribers, going to the pool/gym or for a massage, getting eyelash lamination and sugaring, and who knows what else - our life is made up of these little desires. This is our motivation to get up in the morning to go to work and earn money, and simply the motivation to live. These little desires make up the beautiful picture of our lives. The more thoughtful the desires, the more beautiful the picture - it is like a well-thought-out composition, light, shadow, volume in a real painting or photograph. Develop your desires! And may they come true!

Strong relationships for those who:

1. Follow their own mutual agreements and boundaries, rather than stereotypes about what is ‘right’ and ‘proper’. 2. In difficult situations, stand together against the problem, not against each other, avoiding mutual grievances, claims, and insults. 3. Understand each other, notice what is happening with their partner, and can interpret it correctly.

Forgiveness is Optional

You do not have to forgive someone even if they apologized. This is absolutely normal. You should not feel guilty about this and forgive due to these feelings or out of pity for the person. Their actions hurt you, and you have the right to accept the apology or not. An important point: you should not manipulate with your resentment by staying in the relationship with the person. Usually, communication is minimized in such a situation (if you need time to think over the situation) or ceases altogether.