How to make your husband rich?

Women do not understand that they drive all the masculinity in their chosen one to death into a corner, taking responsibility for everything. A man will not become complete next to a mother woman. On the contrary, he will become a little boy, a child to be looked after. Did you marry a child? Your assertiveness and eternal piling detract from all his masculine qualities, the male instinct hides behind an inferiority complex and does not allow him to move on. Only the man whose beloved allows him to make decisions leads him to real wealth. She inspires him to exploits for her own sake, and he moves mountains. She gives him wings and he begins to soar in the clouds.

[Psychology]

August 11, 2022

I don't like him.

Everyone has long known the formulation that if you don't like something in another person, you have to look for it in the shadow part of yourself. Seek it out, accept it, explore it, and then you'll "let go”. But you don't know what it is that you don't like in people. If you take everything in and dig it out, it will take a long time. So you don't like it and you don't like it. Maybe something just doesn't suit you. For example, the smell isn't right or the way you dress. So the first thing to pay attention to is what you actively dislike. To those situations where, instead of just stepping away from your partner, you stay around and try to actively redo him, blame or shame him. And you can't calm down. You explain to him why he's wrong, and you can't calm down.

[Psychology]

August 11, 2022

What do we learn from frustrating experiences?

The contact of one human being with another is always valuable if one sees the essence. Sufi wisdom says: the one who hurts you, blesses you. He sends you on a journey that you would never dare to undertake on your own.

[Psychology]

August 11, 2022

As we get closer to pleasure, the closer we get to vulnerability.

For pleasure is possible when a person connects with himself, stops analyzing, and simply goes through what's happening to him. The closer we are to vulnerability, and so, to real feeling, the less control we have. And the lower the control, the closer to the surface everything that is contained. That's why people who hold back pain, anger, grief, or fears are almost inaccessible to pleasure. Pleasure and vulnerability are inseparable. You cannot turn on all the senses and turn off what is not lived. And as soon as control is reduced, the restrained and hidden comes to the surface with all clarity.

[Psychology]

August 11, 2022

Advantages of conflict in marriage.

Remember that conflict is a phase that affects many couples, but it can be overcome. Do not be afraid of conflicts, but learn to solve them: even the most difficult and uncomfortable situation, if it is discussed, can become an impetus for the development of your relationship and the search for new prospects.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

Can passion be returned?

First of all, you need to decide whether you need a further relationship with a person who could not stand the difficulties, lost interest in you, fell out of love and, most likely, found a replacement. To change the situation, we must move forward, and not stand still. If you want to return the old emotions - work on yourself. Be sure to talk to your husband, do not hush up the problems.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

Partner woman.

She knows how to listen like no one else. Everything that her man wants to tell about is interesting and important to her - from problematic and difficult moments in his work to incredible ideas with which he is full. It is important to be able to give a man the feeling that you are on his side, his main ally and support in those moments when it is really needed.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

A major family illusion is that relatives are the closest people.

And automatically, obligatorily and completely. And that's not true. They may have chosen each other on a soul level, but as people, they just got each other. That's why relatives are the first people where we meet not only with love, but also with impossibility, misunderstanding, absence and disappointment. Relatives are people given to us to adjust our filter and learn to discern. Take the necessary and spit out the unnecessary, even if it is systematically under our noses. And eventually, discover ourselves by separating from others.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

About Resources and Holes

Dealing with resources ultimately boils downs to facing with the holes, into which these resources leak. It's also about assimilation. Until a person realizes he’s like a moose that drinks and drinks, and he’s getting worse and worse, nothing will change globally. You can receive information, support and warmth for hours and tons, but if you spit it out or stockpile it aside and don't notice or just lose it, no one from the outside will help. As you can only find the hole in contact with others. But fixing the hole is always a work in itself.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

The brain always wants more, even if it doesn't make us happy.

Psychologists from Princeton University in New Jersey decided to find out how people get trapped in an endless thirst for the fulfillment of more and more material desires, and how psychological problems can develop because of this. The simulation experiment showed that the degree of happiness depends on "relative comparison" - people worry about the difference between the material goods they have and those they want to receive. Also, the feeling of happiness depends on our previous expectations. They may change over time. For example, if we enjoyed last summer's round-the-world cruise, we will want to experience at least the same emotions on our next vacation. On the one hand, if you never feel satisfied, you will endlessly strive for the best. On the other hand, constantly devalue what you already have. This can lead to depression and overconsumption.

[Psychology]

August 10, 2022

Why is life in the family an eternal problem?

Life in the family is all everyday worries, household chores that provide for the needs and requirements of each family member. From these needs, household duties are formed. Of course, before the wedding, lovers do not really think about how their life will be organized. But in vain. Routine destroys a marriage due to the wrong distribution of responsibilities, unspoken grievances.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

How to understand that a man wants a family?

He becomes more caring, shows attention, worries about your health and well-being. He spends a lot of time with you. He is ready to give you a space where you can arrange your necessary women's things. He tries to do everything to make your stay in his house comfortable. You are a part of his life, which means there is no need to hide you. He wants to show you to others as his partner.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

Why spouses should sleep together.

Sleeping together is very beneficial. Sleeping with your spouse improves health and may even extend the days of life. A happy woman falls asleep faster. If you prefer to sleep together, then the dream will be strong, deep and healthy. This is a hint of intimacy. In bed with your husband, you have a desire to play pranks.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

Two essential things to happen to a person to make him older.

Disappointment in fantasies, omnipotence, limitlessness, infinity, absolute choice and the ability to please everyone. Humility and acceptance of the fact that you're not hanging in the air and can't be cooler than everyone else. Accepting the way things are, and the presence of other people in your life. And the sooner that happens, the more accessible simple human happiness is. Not the kind that requires conquering the universe, but the kind that can be made with your hands, and achieved by simple actions. Not comprehensive, but finite, concrete and simple enough.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

Sometimes you just don't want to feel... anger, resentment, sadness, or shame.

But they come.⠀ Sometimes you don't want to feel sad or ashamed. But these feelings, as well as any others, come no matter what you want. Sometimes you suddenly feel so hurt that you ask your business partner to wait and run to the bathroom to cry when no one is looking. And you can't explain to yourself what happened. You just feel so vulnerable and can't show it. Feelings make us vulnerable and open to the world in all its unpredictability. They make it possible to be with someone, to change, to find ourselves in unexpected places, to suffer and to rejoice. To be alive.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

The longer we don't name and identify an event, the more experience we can draw from it.

The more attentively we examine and look at what we see, the more chance it has to change right in our presence. The most attentive people always win. This also concerns the one who is able to make a pause and discern possibilities. That is to notice something invisibly present, the essence of what is happening.

[Psychology]

August 9, 2022

Be smart.

It's fair to say that we all have different levels of empathy. But even an attempt to understand your spouse, reciprocating love and understanding, plays a huge role in relationships. Be attentive to the little things and show compassion!

[Psychology]

August 8, 2022

Do not criticize each other's parents.

Each of us has something to say about our parents, and even more so about the parents of a wife or husband. But don't give in to this temptation. Even if the husband himself complains about his parents, the rule continues to work. Do not give in to provocation, do not get involved and start scolding his mother or father along with him. Just say, "I understand you." Don't say yes, "yes, your mom is a really terrible woman!"

[Psychology]

August 8, 2022

What happens to the feelings we bottle and hide?

As a rule, only intensify and find workarounds to manifest themselves. Envy is a strong feeling, it derives from our desires and opportunities, it is a passion, and there is a lot of energy behind it. Is it possible to turn this energy to your advantage? Or is an envious person doomed to suffer? Creative envy gives inspiration, motivation and even joy. Neurotic envy is a slightly different story. And then there is narcissistic, psychotic envy... there are many forms of its manifestation, each has their own.

[Psychology]

August 8, 2022

Hope can strike you blind.

If there is even the slightest chance of hope somewhere on the horizon - one might find themselves in a state of worry and uncertainty. Their world is not as agile and capable of change. When one is preparing themselves to take the first heroic step into a new bright future, they face challenge to take these “domino” steps in the present.

[Psychology]

August 8, 2022