The secret to happiness in a relationship.

Passion and emotions gradually leave loving couples, but what then remains the key to a long-term relationship? After all, beautiful underwear will not be able to seal the relationship forever. It won't be enough. The secret of happiness is attention. Kind smiles in the morning, mutual help and support in difficult circumstances, cooking breakfast or dinner. This is caring and sincere feelings about a person: how are things at work or how are you feeling. You accept and love the person as you love yourself. In such a relationship there is no place for selfishness and indifference.

How to make people like you immediately?

Try the MIRROR technique. If a person is joking, joke back. Your interlocutor is sad? Be in solidarity with her/him. In case he/she is in a hurry to share the news, listen just as enthusiastically. Try also to pay attention to the person's gestures: if she or he is sharply avoiding answering the question or starting staring at the phone, it means that you've touched upon a painful issue and there's no need to continue.

Happiness is the ability to be grateful.

If you can't be thankful for a sunny day and a cup of coffee today, then buying a COAT tomorrow definitely won't make you happy. You should love what you already have. "It would be good if" is the sign of emotional immaturity while "it is" is the reality. Happiness is something that is happening NOW. Cause there may be no tomorrow.

Why does a man cool off towards his wife after the birth of a child.

1. External changes of a woman. Sex after childbirth becomes insipid, and the missus seems not so attractive. 2. Emotional isolation. A man feels like a third wheel at home. Many wives make a big mistake. They remove the young dad from all the duties of caring for the baby. 3. Constant conflicts. Disputes over the upbringing of a child, quarrels based on misunderstandings - all this builds a wall between spouses. 4. Problems in intimate life. It's been a long time since the baby was born. But is your spouse afraid to touch you? Sex after childbirth generally disappeared.

Oh, these men's suffering!

If you met a man who is depressed and an eternal sufferer, do not try to remake him. And in general, stop falling in love with just anyone. After all, how do many women argue? Like, this poor fellow has not yet seen normal women. Here he gets to know me better and understands what a golden man I am. Girls, it doesn't work like that! A psychologically mature person must deal with his feelings on his own. Otherwise, an unhealthy relationship awaits you. If you want to build a strong alliance, learn to choose a partner.

3 decisions that do not save relationships, but only make things worse.

1. Get married. The step is as illogical as possible, but very common. A wedding in our culture is often perceived as a way to nullify all the negative things that happened before marriage. including claims. 2. Have a baby. The appearance of a baby can be a test for strong harmonious couples. 3. Change. If betrayal strengthens marriage, then in some parallel universe.

Shake up your dates.

For example, ride a roller coaster, watch a horror movie or fly in an airplane together. SUCH unusual activities stimulate the arousal centers in the brain and get you and your object of desire closer to each other. Making your partner experience unusual emotions on a date with you means that her/his heart is in your pocket.

Don't make empty promises.

Why do you need it? Never be under someone's thumb, people will just walk all over you demanding more and more.Try to be diplomatic when fulfilling even a small request and don’t hesitate to use the following phrazes: "I'll try, or I'll do my best, etc."

List of goals for the fall.

18. Choose a sunny day, go to the city's parks, for which the hands have not reached the summer, taking a camera with you. Feed squirrels, ducks or just pigeons. To take pictures. Green grass, yellow leaves and blue sky will leave the most pleasant emotions and memories. 19. Arrange candles at home and burn them when it starts to get dark. You can put them in openwork candlesticks and watch the whimsical shadows on the walls and ceiling. 20. To walk around the city center without pοvοda, prοstο like that. 21. Go mushrooms. Straight into the forest. Well, or for cones. Why not!? If there is no forest nearby, buy chanterelles from grandmothers and make excellent roasts.

List of goals for the fall.

14. Parse summer photographs. Print the best ones, arrange them in beautiful frames or make a collage, hang them on the wall and admire them. 15. Wander around the gοpοdu in rubber boots and with οgrpοmny zοntοm in the rain time. Watch as passers-by scurry past, trying to guess who they are and where they are in a hurry. 16. Cook mulled wine. Snuggle up in a warm cozy blanket and watch your favorite movie while sipping a warming spicy drink. 17. Endure a hug day. We hug everyone! Relatives and friends, pets and just soft toys. We give love, joy and positive!

List of goals for the fall.

10. Cook jam or pοvidlο. Arrange it in small beautiful jars, come up with funny signatures for each. And with pleasure to drink tea with him in the cold late evenings, remembering the summer. And you can, by tying satin ribbons, present to friends and acquaintances. 11. Take care of health. For example, go to the gym, swimming pool, or join yoga. 12. More time with friends. Estpοit friendly sit-downs without οsοbοy reasons. 13. Make a bright themed manicure. Autumn is not a reason to part with summer flowers! How much space for fantasy design, which will certainly charge you with cheerfulness and positive!

List of goals for the fall.

5. Wallow in the leaves - as long as they are not yet wet and dirty, they have already attacked the grass. Feel like a florist: pick up leaves of different colors and textures, autumn flowers and berries. Make bouquets and compositions and decorate the interior with them. 6. Tοpοpοt tοpοpο tο pοpοf summer things in a cozy kοpοbku, take out the winter ones and put them on a hanger with a pοmpοy. Things that have not been worn this year even once, give away as a gift. 7. Listen to the birds. For example, in the forest or on the sea coast. 8. Take a weekend trip to the river bank with a tent; go out at dawn into the fog, chill and warm up with fresh fragrant tea. 9. Start collecting herbarium from green leaves in order to see how they turn yellow.

List of goals for the fall.

Choose the ones that attract you the most and the more the better! This will help to find peace of mind and harmony. 1. Spοvesti morning in a coffee shop with a book, at οkοshka, ideally in the rain. Enjoy the measured, soothing sound of rain, watch how trickles of water run ahead of each other on the glass. 2. To walk a pοluοsenny οshoe, which you can’t put on in the heat - it’s hot, and late in the fall it’s cold. 3. Get to the amusement park and ride them while they work. Buy cotton candy or a bucket of popcorn, like in childhood, and feel like a carefree child. 4. Get a bright new zοntοm or a funny autumn hat and gloves.

A toxic relationship is worse than no relationship.

I have seen many times how women, guided by the principle "well, let him be like that, but not alone," destroy themselves. They spend a lot of energy and health on toxic relationships. The main problem, in my opinion, is that they are so used to unhealthy relationships that they no longer notice that something is wrong. Most likely, the parents had about the same - toxic and dysfunctional relationships and women unconsciously copy them.

Settings for a happy relationship.

Repeat to yourself every day. • "I build harmonious and happy relationships." • "In our relations there is always trust and mutual understanding." • "My soul mate is my strong support." • "I attract mutual love and happiness." • "Our relationship is developing every day." What other phrases would you add?

How to motivate a man to earn more?

How to motivate a man to earn more? To begin with, the answer to this question consists of several conditions: 1. Has a male capable of earning been chosen? Or is he a principled slacker, a loser and a lover of "translating arrows"? 2. Are you the kind of woman for whom you are drawn to exploits? Causes awe, desire to be near, to make you happy?

This too shall pass away.

Remember? It was written on King Solomon's ring. DIFFICULTIES are inevitable in everyone's life. First, let's figure out the cause of your discouragement. Try saying out loud the causes of your unhappiness. Have you found a pain point? That's nice. The sooner we stop feeling SORRY FOR OURSELVES, the sooner we can get rid of the possibility of completely falling apart.

The power of love works like a magnet.

You let other people know how you can be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. Feel worthy. Feel special. Feel like you deserve the very best. And then it will certainly come true.

3 secrets to become a magnet for male attention.

1. Optimism and a smile literally attract men. Obsession with problems, whining can push anyone away. Seeing the positive in everything and smiling broadly at life is the best way to be the center of attraction! 2. Self-confidence (not to be confused with arrogance!). Posture, head position, gaze, gait, gestures - all this gives non-verbal signals. When a woman is perceived as confident, she automatically becomes interesting. 3. Beauty and grooming. The golden rule: men in 99% of cases do not understand the proportions, size and shape of the eyes and do not notice minor flaws. As such, they do not understand canonical beauty, but they perfectly read grooming. A man perceives the image as a whole and tends to react not to beauty, but to grooming.

What do men expect from a relationship?

1. Approval and support. There are more problems in the male world than in ours. Ambition and motivation to go forward require strong nerves, constant struggle with stress. And in this struggle they need to be supported. Praise and encourage your husband more often, hug and kiss, say that "everything will be fine" when it is required. 2. Honesty and trust. Any person needs someone in front of whom it is not scary to show his soul. Open up completely, share your innermost thoughts and emotions. And this is impossible without complete trust. 3. Acceptance. Men love to make themselves important macho, but in their hearts they dream of being accepted for who they are. This does not mean that you need to turn a blind eye to their shortcomings, but giving your loved one a little personal space does not hurt. Are there all the points in your relationship? Do you think your man is happy?