Steps to Releasing Someone Else's Negative Energy

Not everyone who constantly demands your support loves you. You also have your own purpose on Earth. And it is not to live someone else's life. Remember that you cannot change the world alone, make it more humane. You are not able to help everyone. Sometimes the best thing you can do is take care of yourself.

Be careful about whom you invite into your life

Be careful when choosing those you invite into your life. Your body, your mind, and your immediate environment are your temple. Who do you want to invite into it? Is it an open invitation? Do people wipe their feet before entering? Or do they come to you only to shed the dirt from their soul? In Brazil, there is a slang word folgado. It can be translated as 'free,' but also as 'lazy.' But in fact, it sounds like 'freeloader.' 'Freeloaders' are people whose lifestyle implies that they will live at the expense of others. If you give such a person a 'piece of bread' once, they will stay and keep asking for more pieces as long as you have 'bread.' And when it's gone, the 'freeloader' will find a new victim. In general, don't let people into your life who only take something from you but give you nothing in return.

Ignore Energy Vampires

Stop paying attention. People who feed off the energy of others are constantly in search of new "victims." Energy vampires can indeed 'drain' life from you, so stay alert! Some people use people like you as a "pit-stop," an opportunity to recharge their batteries. "Eager ears" are like the Holy Grail for them. If a vampire finds them on your head, pretend to listen, but deliberately try to let everything go in one ear and out the other. And just nod. Don't be afraid to seem rude. Learn to love yourself enough to value your time and the purity of your consciousness. If someone pesters you with problems you don't care about, have the courage to simply stand up and say you can't listen to them right now. Defend yourself against energetic toxins.

Breathe in Nature

Breathe in nature. If you need time to reflect, relax, and become aware of some things, try spending it in nature or at least in a park. When walking, focus on your breathing. This will improve blood flow to your brain and allow you to relax. Walking is the best way to clear your head. Only upon returning to the office, home, or previous company, decisively reject dialogues with those who want to clutter your mind again.

Take Full Responsibility

Take 100-percent responsibility for your thoughts and emotions. Take full responsibility for what happens in your mind. The universe sends you encounters with thousands of people to test you. Your task is to select only those who positively influence your perception of life. You are not a victim. And no one has the right to enslave your mind, your soul, or your free will. Consciously make the choice: who will govern your consciousness - you or others? This is not as simple a question as it seems. Think carefully about it. Consider what people and situations give you energy to live? You deserve to spend time only with those who inspire and uplift you. And remember: any love for others begins with love for yourself. You deserve happiness and peace. Just start saying "No" more often. Only then will you learn to manage your energy state.

True Friends are Rare

Never be sure that you are an important part of someone else's life. This excessive self-confidence is unnecessary. In our world, everyone can be replaced, except for parents, so all this self-importance is deceptive. You should not attach to people in general. It usually ends in pain. You should only be confident in yourself, not in others. Everyone will let you down, fail to meet expectations, disappoint. Some will even leave you. Only those who are like you will remain. Your kindred spirits. With them, there will be no expectations, no confidence, no hopes, but they will be there. You won't even understand what connects you, but it will be a strong thread between you. Yes, such people will be few, counted on one hand, but they are real. They will turn out to be the best.

What Does Happiness Mean?

Do you know what happiness means? It's not something you should wait for all your life, and you don't need to earn millions for happiness. Happiness is when life gives you all the chances and you utilize them to the fullest. Appreciate those who are close to you. Any difficulties bring us some lesson, open our eyes, and give us food for thought. Look around you. Who asks you how you are every day? Who, knowing that you are in a bad mood, tries to cheer you up and calm you down? Who can chat with you for hours on end? Hug them tight.

The Importance of Freedom in Your Life

Do not try to hold on to someone or something in your life. It will only lead to suffering. Look around. Nature is very wise. Everything around is made up of elements. Try to hold fire, and you will get burned. Wind, water, or earth, and they will slip through your fingers. Everything is born free. Your task is only to create conditions for the campfire to burn brighter, but do not try to hold it, otherwise it will consume you. Freedom is what matters. Give people and things around you freedom, do not hold them, do not cling to them or to ideas about them. Then you will create the most comfortable conditions for your free life and for the lives of those around you. People will strive to be with you themselves because you give them the most important thing – freedom.

The Advice of My Wisest Grandmother

One day, I asked my wisest grandmother: "What should I do if I love someone?.." She answered without hesitation: "Leave him alone..." I immediately asked the opposite question: "What should I do if I don't love?.." She answered the same: "Leave him alone!..." Seeing my puzzled face, my grandmother explained: "That is the most honest way: you shouldn't torment either the loved or the hated person. If your love is mutual – everything will be fine! If not – there will be nothing. And remember: even in happy relationships, you should leave the person alone as often as possible... the longer they will remain happy!" Many years later, after diving into a sea of practice, I understood that my grandmother's advice was worth many volumes of relationship psychology books. It always works.

List of the Famous Psychologist Randy Gage

1. Law of Emptiness. If you need new shoes, throw away the old ones. If you need new clothes, clean out your closet. You must willingly part with your stereotypes. 2. Law of Circulation. Be prepared to let go of something you possess to receive something you desire. 3. Law of Imagination. First, you must see prosperity in your imagination. Write a description of your ideal day and show it to no one except someone you trust. Keep this description handy and reread it in your free time.

List of the Famous Psychologist Randy Gage

4. Law of Creativity. A person can achieve prosperity through the energy of their thinking, intuition, and imagination. 5. Law of Giving and Receiving. If you give something, it returns tenfold. When you receive blessings, it is very important to share them with others. If you have a gift and do not use it, you insult your divine essence. To respect your abilities with due reverence, you must rejoice in the gifts and share them with others. If you do this, you attract even more blessings into your life.

List of Famous Psychologist Randy Gage

6. Law of Tithing. The universe always takes its tithe. It is simply a law of gratitude to the source of support - 10% of everything you have. You never know how your tithe will come back to you. Money is common. But it can also come in the form of reconciliation with someone, new friendships, in the form of recovery, etc. 7. Law of Forgiveness. If you cannot forgive people, you cannot accept your wealth. If your soul is filled with hatred, love cannot find a place in it. You must get rid of negative feelings that consume you and give you no peace.

Challenges for Spiritual Development

Problems in life are given to a person for their spiritual development, so that they radically change something in their life, become stronger, wiser, brighter, more independent, learn to think, analyze, show willpower to change their lifestyle. One can cure oneself of selfishness and self-pity only through SELF-love with one's own hands, because when a person loves themselves, they are guided by the heart, not by the ego. Then they will have no time to condemn and blame others. They will not waste their precious time and energy in vain.

Challenges for Spiritual Growth

Problems are given for spiritual development. If a person desires much and claims something but takes no steps to achieve the desired outcome, you are dealing with a true egoist who pities himself, thus covering up his laziness and helplessness. Therefore, one must deal with one's egoism, take concrete actions towards self-renewal and self-improvement, and stop pitying oneself. Then the strength will be found, positivity will emerge, and the desired results will undoubtedly follow.

Problems are Given for Spiritual Growth

Problems are given for spiritual growth. For this, one must develop openness to receive new information, diligence in understanding and applying it to oneself, cultivate self-love and share this love with the surrounding world, always be ready for changes and not be afraid of difficulties that only harden. Of course, this will require a reassessment of one's life values, the realization of being a Human fulfilling their important role in the Universe.

Live a Fulfilling Life

Problems are given for spiritual development. Start living a fulfilling life, give yourself the right to be Human, i.e., gain your personal experience, overcome your fears, change your beliefs, achieve your desires, and do not judge yourself too harshly. Just live in the present and know that any decision you make will have consequences, pleasant or not so, so you need to take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and actions – for your life. And most importantly, learn to accept yourself as you are, because you are unique and very important to the Universe just the way you are.

Problems are Given for Spiritual Development

Problems are given for spiritual development. Egoism will desperately resist such renewal attempts, but the focus on spiritual development and the painstaking 'work on oneself' to improve one's character traits and change one's lifestyle will inevitably yield positive results and lead to the goal. By developing and renewing spiritually, you gather love in your soul, nourish yourself with love, and create an environment of love around you, instead of pity and egoism. By making your world better and renewing yourself, you contribute invaluablely to the Universe.

Be smarter

Be smarter. Learn to let go in time, even of those you love. This is the great law of non-attachment. When you hold on to someone out of fear of losing your love, you lose more. Take a deep breath and let everyone be responsible for their own life. Everyone belongs only to themselves. Never try to change another person. Accept them as they are, we are all different, but that’s the beauty. People become close not through similarity, fake compromises, or even shared past. True closeness is born from genuine enjoyment of differences. When you don't try to change, convince, or desperately stuff someone with advice. When you just interact with a person - like reading a book - agree on some things, disagree on others, but it's still so interesting, elegant, and light that you can't stop. Unfortunately, to understand such elementary things, you often have to pay a high price - losing dear people. Therefore, be wiser.

Relationships are always hard work

Sometimes, looking at other people's relationships from the outside, it seems that everything is easy, beautiful, and simple. Unintentionally, you start to wonder why everything with us involves conflicts, arguments, and misunderstandings. Why can't we have everything just as easy and simple? And then, while walking down the street holding hands, you catch yourself thinking that someone is looking at us with bated breath, smiling, and maybe even envying us. Because it’s easy and beautiful only on the outside, but relationships are always hard work.

The Harsh Truth About Healthy Relationships

The harsh truth about healthy relationships is that if you are ready to forgive your partner absolutely everything, it’s not love, but dependence. In the union of psychologically mature people, there are always red lines that cannot be crossed under any circumstances. Forgiving the unforgivable means not respecting either yourself or your partner. People raised on the 'myth of love' find it hard to understand this, as one of its tenets is that suffering is an indispensable part of 'true feelings'. That’s why they can’t build happy long-term relationships.