The True Woman

A man does not love the woman herself, but his state when he is near her. Therefore, the True Woman is not the most beautiful, not the smartest, and certainly not the most successful in social terms. The True Woman gives a man not intelligence, not beauty, not body, not success, but a state of being. A woman who creates a special state for men – masculine, will always be loved. This state she creates by enjoying the company of her man and admiring him. And to this special state, a man will always be drawn like to a magnet.

Someday you will understand

Someday you will understand that there are people who never betray... But for this, you will have to go through many betrayals. Someday you will understand that outer shine is nothing compared to inner beauty. Because everything that is outside is only until the first rain... But what is inside burns always! Even if it has faded to barely visible embers. But, just purse your lips into a tube and blow gently — the fire will gradually ignite and warm you. Someday you will understand that many formulas and aphorisms you have picked up in the surrounding world are empty, though beautiful, sets of words — nothing more. Only the truths you have reached yourself are important. Someday you will understand that kindness, gentleness, tenderness, and care are manifestations of inner strength, not weakness.

Three Signs That You Are a Strong Personality

1. You calmly accept your failures. Only people with strong minds can accept their life problems and failures calmly. 2. You can forgive people. The ability to forgive people is inherent only in strong-willed individuals who can forget about problems and annoyances. 3. You acknowledge your mistakes. Mistakes happen to everyone in life, but only strong people can acknowledge them. They will not deny them or try to deceive to avoid problems and misunderstandings.

Don't Postpone Happiness!

Promise yourself to spend more time with those who give your life meaning. Cherish wonderful moments, bask in them. Do what you've always wanted to do. Climb the rock you've dreamed of climbing or learn to play the trumpet. Dance in the rain or start a new venture. Learn to love music, learn another foreign language, and rekindle the capacity for wonder that you had as a child. Don't postpone happiness for the sake of achievements.

Shake Off All Foolish Thoughts from Your Head

Shake off all foolish thoughts from your head. Stop poisoning your life with sorrow and longing for things that didn't happen or didn't come true. Leave the past in the past by firmly closing the door behind it. Stop treating the incurable and reviving what has long been dead. Throw away everything broken and remove from your life what does not bring joy. Do not cling to people who do not value you, are not afraid to hurt you, and do not respect you. Stop loving those who do not love you, who do not consider you the only one, and can easily replace you with something better, more convenient, or more profitable. Distance yourself from those who constantly undervalue your abilities, try to instill a sense of guilt in you for actions you did not commit. And remember - you have only yourself and deserve a person for whom you will be a real treasure, who will love you with all their heart and never exchange you for anyone else.

Make Time for Loved Ones

Make time to communicate with good people. Time won't find itself. Time is a strange substance. It tends to get filled with work, household chores, and hustle. Time is eternal. But people are not. Therefore, you need to learn to stretch time and insert moments of communication with those who are dear and interesting to you. Make an extra call. Ask how they are. Invite them for tea. Stretch time and find ten minutes for a walk with friends in the city after work and for a cup of tea with your sister or brother. It only seems like such moments are insignificant. But in reality, everything depends on them.

Ideal Relationships

Ideal relationships are when you see each other as idols. You are the goddess of beauty for him, he is the god of sex for you. Why so primitive? Because in fact, nothing stirs a woman's consciousness like a man infinitely admiring her. Nothing stirs a man's consciousness like a woman infinitely desiring him.

Relationships shouldn't be bad!

Relationships are about people feeling good together, developing themselves, and making joint plans. Of course, arguments are inevitable, but you need to resolve them rather than ignore them and harbor grudges. If something bothers you, you consider it abnormal or see no future, leave them. Don't sacrifice yourself! It is unlikely that things will change.

Quotes about Relationships between Men and Women

1. Remember that the best relationships are those in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 2. Love is the only thing that sharpens the mind, awakens creative imagination, and cleanses and frees us. 3. Being together means feeling as comfortable as when alone and as joyful as when in company. 4. When a man and a woman are drawn to each other, no one can stop them. 5. Relationships based on trust depend on our willingness to consider not only our own interests but also the interests of others.

Strange but true

Strangely enough, not everything in life needs to be watched, read, listened to, or tried. Not everyone should be let into your life. You shouldn't try to be friends with everyone. Not everything needs to be commented on, not everything needs to be planned, not all ideas and plans need to be implemented, not everything needs to be delved into and interfered with. Sometimes you need to protect your soul and consciousness. Restraint is the shortest path to yourself, to a clear understanding of things and events. The highest degree of selfishness is grabbing everything you can, just in case, so you have it. Later, you don't know what to do with it, get irritated, and find it hard to carry all the accumulated wealth. Be careful what you wish for, as it tends to come true. Mindfulness is when you stop taking what you actually don't need.

Once in the evening

One evening I realized how important it is to love women. In an underground passage, I helped an elderly lady with her bags up the stairs. She thanked me and then, hesitantly, asked me to escort her to her apartment courtyard. It turned out that my help was needed so she could get there quickly, as her husband greets her every time she leaves the house. A nearly blind old man with a cane was barely moving across the courtyard. He was on his way to meet his beloved and take her shopping bags. I immediately recalled how often I had refused to meet my girlfriend from the store or the train because I was too lazy.

Discussing Boundaries in Relationships

Everyone has the right to live as they wish. But if you are in a relationship, you must understand that each of you is responsible for actions that can affect the partner. That is why it is so important to discuss in advance what is acceptable to each person and what is not. This can save both of you from painful situations and violations of each other's personal boundaries. Most often, boundaries are violated where they have not been defined.

We love people for their flaws!

Have you ever wondered that it is precisely the combination of good qualities and flaws that determines our choice? If a person has flaws that are internally taboo to us, we cannot sympathize with them. But when it comes to true love, this law no longer applies. In healthy relationships, we accept the person with all their qualities, we simply love and enjoy the time we spend with them.

Immature Personality

Immature personalities try to change others to fit themselves. Mature personalities try to change themselves and move to self-regulation. Immature personalities try to change circumstances, mature ones adapt to them. Immature personalities want someone else to arrange their affairs, mature ones arrange them themselves. Immature personalities hope, mature ones act. Immature personalities try to control others, mature ones control themselves. Immature personalities often know, but cannot do. Mature personalities not only know, but also can do. Therefore, immature personalities criticize, while mature ones act.

Workaholism Officially Recognized as an Addiction

Workaholism has been officially recognized as an addiction - psychologists rank this condition alongside alcoholism, drug addiction, and shopping addiction. The disease can be detected in oneself when life consists only of work. According to psychologists, an endless work schedule quickly leads to burnout and resignation.

Happiness is LIVING!

Happiness is LIVING! Don't wait for the crisis to pass. Smile right now, hug the person next to you, and think warmly of those who are far away. Knead dough for a pie, drop a warm letter in the mailbox, forgive the person you are angry with, close your eyes for a minute, and when you open them, start life anew. Don't take life too seriously, don't seek meaning, gain, or revenge. Just live, smile, and love. It's not hard.

When a Woman Loses Patience

When a woman gets tired of fighting against male misunderstanding, she lets him go. No, it doesn't necessarily mean they break up. She lets him go from her days, thoughts, and heart. She no longer cares where he is or how he is. He is granted the desired freedom from her endless limitations and whims. And she is freed from worries. He continues to live his usual life, and she starts living hers. In the end, he begins to miss her and clearly realizes the mistake he made. But nothing can change anymore. He lost her a long time ago, but noticed it too late.

Everyone has the right to live as they wish

Everyone has the right to live as they wish. If family or friends do not accept your choice, that is their problem. You have your own life, they have theirs. Love is when you are loved as you are, without someone trying to improve you. If it is important to you to act your own way, you need to agree with yourself in advance that you know the consequences, are ready for losses, and are not afraid of them.

Attention - what is it?

Flowers, compliments, pleasant surprises, messages, calls, shared leisure. Is this all attention? Yes! Does all this confirm your importance to your partner? Not in the slightest. There is one sign that precisely indicates whether you are important to the person (partner, friend, relative). They won't leave you. They will come to help right away. They will travel from afar, not spare time, money on a ticket, there won't be a single excuse. Everything else is tinsel, gilding. The shine of your relationship will fade as soon as you find yourself in such a situation. The person will show their true attitude towards you, how deeply they cherish and breathe you. And this does not mean at all that they are bad or evil. They are simply not yours. So don't make someone who gives you only gilding dear to you. It's not enough.

Serious Relationships

Tell me, how is it possible to understand at the acquaintance whether we will have a serious relationship or not? Relationships are not a commercial contract where you can prescribe all the mutually beneficial conditions. The very definition of serious relationships definitely reminds me of a straitjacket, into which most people climb to mutually torment each other. The associations with this expression are only one - stereotyped, step-by-step, according to instructions. In short, everything is Serious with us. Sex, love, caresses - only with a serious expression on the face. Something like that? I like another phrase - close relationships. It just reflects what it is worth entering into relationships in principle - knowing yourself and another through intimacy with another.