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Situationships
Situationships. Two people spend time together, go on dates, may have sex. But their status is not fully clear, and partners may wonder, "What are we to each other—friends, lovers? Will we be together? Should we stop this?" Situationships have a lot of uncertainty and "space." On one hand, there's a lot of freedom, on the other, there's no support from the partner. They are completely autonomous, yet have a relationship that's comfortable in terms of closeness—they can go on romantic dates and have sex with a person they like. However, such relationships can be quite painful if one partner desires a stable relationship while the other "keeps a distance," not explicitly stating their intentions.
[Psychology]
May 11, 2025
Guest Marriage
Guest marriage. It is a monogamous, serious relationship with mutual obligations, with the only distinction being that such partners do not live together. They can visit each other and stay overnight, meet in neutral territories. Guest marriage reduces the likelihood of domestic quarrels. This relationship format helps maintain boundaries between partners and preserve each individual's personal space. Additionally, there remains a certain allure of unspoken, romantic and sexual play, which positively affects the level of passion in the couple. Trust is important for such relationships — sometimes people may become jealous because some part of the partner's life is hidden from them. Furthermore, guest marriage can be painful if one of the partners would like to live together but is forced to agree to this option.
[Psychology]
May 11, 2025
8 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence Avoid
Emotional intelligence, what is it? As far back as the 19th century, scientists began to question why a high IQ did not guarantee a successful career and life. An explanation was found for this, which was that the most successful people are capable of recognizing emotions, consciously managing them, understanding intentions and desires, motivation, and this applies not only to themselves but also to others. Collectively, all these (and some other) qualities were included under the concept of 'emotional intelligence'.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
8 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence Avoid
In scientific circles, there is currently much debate about whether emotional intelligence is innate or can be learned. Most researchers tend to favor the latter. Consequently, they identify a number of traits that people with high emotional intelligence avoid.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
8 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence Avoid
1. They don't ignore others' feelings. People with high emotional intelligence are open to compassion. They never ignore others' feelings and emotions. They are genuinely interested in what a person is experiencing. 2. They don't play the victim. Emotionally mature people have control over their own feelings. They understand that they are responsible for the feelings they experience. Therefore, they never blame others for having a bad day. They don't play the victim and redirect all negative emotions into productive thoughts.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
8 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence Avoid
3. They are calm. An emotionally intelligent person does not lose touch with their feelings. However, they also understand that living constantly in one's head can lead to problems. They stay in contact with their emotions but do not let them take over. 4. They do not allow others to control their emotions. People with strong emotional intelligence do not let themselves be destroyed. Despite their sensitivity, they maintain control over their emotions and keep a positive attitude towards the situation.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
8 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Avoid
5. They don't engage in unnecessary conflict. One of the main positive traits of an emotionally intelligent person is the ability to avoid conflicts in order to conserve their energy for more positive interactions. They are excellent at navigating situations and understand which conflicts should be defused and which should be developed to a critical point. 6. They don't gossip. An emotionally intelligent person understands that gossip only causes harm, including to reputation. Such people know that it is more beneficial to engage in positive conversations with others on more reasonable topics. Therefore, they themselves avoid gossipers but easily find those who support their pursuit of normal communication.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
8 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Avoid
7. They are not afraid to say "no." For many people, saying "no" is a problem, and as a result, they end up shouldering commitments they simply cannot handle. A person with developed emotional intelligence knows their limits, respects themselves, and understands when it is necessary to say "no" without excuses. 8. They do not seek approval from others. Emotionally intelligent people know that approval is not an objective assessment of accomplishments. These people know their worth and the value of their work, they cannot be bought by flattery or praise, and they remain quite indifferent to approval. Nevertheless, they are always respectful towards other people and their opinions.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
Emotions are an integral part of life
Emotions are an integral part of life. They cannot be killed, thrown away, or buried. They are present in a person from birth to their last day. And they are undoubtedly our friends. Our way to express our state of mind at any given moment. From childhood, we hear phrases like "don't cry", "don't shout", "stop being angry", or "stop freaking out". Thus, a person suppresses their emotions without understanding what's happening. From this, people grow up with a weak psyche and unstable mental balance.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
Understand Your Emotions
Emotions are an integral part of life. Learn to understand what you are feeling at the moment: joy, anger, sadness, fun, surprise, or fear. By assessing your condition, it will be easier for you to gauge another person's state. It will be easier to make acquaintances, build relationships, and develop a career. Do not be a hostage to your feelings, do not try to hide them, just track them and channel the energy in the right direction.
[Psychology]
May 10, 2025
Depression may be passed from mothers
Depression and low mood may be passed from mothers. Scientists have noticed: in mothers with depression, the brain reacts differently to mistakes, and this poor tuning is reflected in the brains of their daughters. Even if the girls do not yet have obvious symptoms, their brains echo the experiences of their mothers during pregnancy. This could be an early marker of a tendency towards depression before its signs appear.
[Psychology]
May 9, 2025
Girls don't always need expensive gifts
Many men mistakenly think that a woman's love can be bought. Believe me, no matter which restaurant you take her to, nothing compares to a spontaneous surprise in the form of her favorite treat when she is sad, or a bouquet of flowers. Nothing compares to noticing that she did her eyeliner differently, or at least has a new manicure. Women need attention, not money!
[Psychology]
May 3, 2025
The Most Important People in Our Lives
The most necessary, desired, and long-awaited people appear in our lives only when we create space within ourselves for their presence. We free ourselves from memories, from the past, from fears, and our own foolish prohibitions and limitations. We become our true selves not in solitude. Solitude only aids in the cleansing of the soul. We discover our true selves only with those who open in our heart a world of kindness, tenderness, small daily miracles, smiles, and boundless happiness.
[Psychology]
May 3, 2025
Conflicts as a Tool of Love
Conflicts are not the end of love, but a tool of it. Psychologists are confident: the ability to argue correctly strengthens the bond. How? Focus on the issue, not the person ('It's important to me that we discuss plans more often' instead of 'You never listen to me!'). Pause is your friend. If emotions run high, take a timeout and return to the conversation later. After a quarrel, be sure to 'repair' the relationship: hugs, a joke, a sincere conversation. Remember, a quarrel is not war, but a search for a common solution.
[Psychology]
May 3, 2025
Every woman seeks her reflection
Every woman seeks her reflection in the eyes of a man. And the one who says she has found her destiny in work, children, psychology, or knitting is deceiving us or herself. This is how the Creator has arranged it, that a woman is born and continues infinitely – in the arms of a man.
[Psychology]
April 29, 2025
Learn to Let Go
Learn to let go in time, even those you love. When you hold onto someone out of fear of losing your love, you lose more. Everyone belongs only to themselves. Never try to remake another person. Accept them as they are; we are all different, but that’s the charm. People become close not through similarity, false compromises, or even shared pasts. True closeness comes from sincere enjoyment of differences. When you don't try to remake someone, persuade them, or desperately stuff them with advice.
[Psychology]
April 29, 2025
Why are you turning into his mother, instead of his beloved wife?
Some women, full of love and care, unknowingly turn into nannies for their partners. Instead of passionate nights, there's concern for his health; instead of romantic dates, there are reminders about bills and washing his socks. In healthy relationships, there are two equal partners who respect and support each other. Don't let your care turn you into a mother. Be the beloved woman, full of energy and passion!
[Psychology]
April 25, 2025
How to Wake Someone Up in the Morning
Waking a person up in the morning should not involve admonitions like 'get up, we're late' or 'it's time for work/school/a meeting,' because this appeals to consciousness, which is quite aware of the transience of existence and is unlikely to want to return to the world of people. You should wake up the body. With the rustling of candy wrappers being opened. With the aroma of favorite tea or a favorite dish. With an invitation to the table. Do not wake the consciousness with reminders of unpleasant events. Wake up the bodies for pleasant and delicious moments of life…
[Psychology]
April 25, 2025
Fate never leaves us alone
Fate never leaves us alone. When it takes something from us, it gives us something new, more necessary, and better in return. Never hold on to what is leaving, no matter how much it hurts or how much you want to bring everything back. Over time, you will understand that life truly gives us happiness. In the end, those who know how to wait always receive something greater and brighter. Just believe in it.
[Psychology]
April 25, 2025
Turning Points in Relationships
Turning points in relationships. You know, there are those moments when everything seems fine, and then bam! – something clicks. Living together. Romance is romantic, but scattered socks and unwashed dishes are a test for any couple. Learn to compromise and negotiate. Birth of a child. It's certainly a joy, but also a huge test of strength. Girls, turning points are normal! They are an opportunity to reassess the relationship, understand what needs to change to become even closer.
[Psychology]
April 24, 2025