Riding the Waves

Relationships can be compared to waves in the sea. These waves represent your emotions, the ups and downs in relationships. Some waves last only a few hours, while others last several months or even years. The key is to remember that these waves themselves hardly reflect the quality of the relationships. They are influenced by the difficulties we encounter in our lives: loss or change of job, relocation, financial problems. And if you can catch these waves together, overcoming them will be much easier.

[Psychology]

June 17, 2024

The Simplest Way to Lose a Loving Woman

The simplest way to lose a loving woman is to try to break her, manipulate her feelings, make her cry, and cause pain. She will endure and forgive for a long time, but one day someone will appear in her life who, through the pain you caused, will make her smile. And then, he will occupy all her thoughts, and later, her heart. You see, love can be killed, no matter how boundless it may seem to you. A woman can forgive you endlessly only in two cases: either she is your mother or she is a fool. In all other cases, you will simply lose her once!

[Psychology]

June 17, 2024

The Importance of Touch in Expressing Love

Touch each other. Even if one of you is not accustomed to expressing love in this way. Incorporate rituals of hugs and touches - it is important for both you and your children. Just hold hands, embrace each other, or gently stroke each other's backs - any tactile contact is highly important!

[Psychology]

June 17, 2024

The Importance of Attention in Relationships

Attention is everything. Many people believe that love fades away due to the difficult nature of partners or unworthy actions. But that's not entirely true. The main problem lies in the lack of attention from one of the partners. A person who doesn't receive enough attention starts feeling hurt and suffering. And if the partner doesn't start giving attention again, their behavior will lead to a break-up. A woman should always be ready to listen to her partner. And a man is obligated to involve her in an interesting process, in motion.

[Psychology]

June 16, 2024

The Unspoken Language of Human Emotions

In fact, people feel everything. They always know when they are loved and accepted, and when they are not. They sense when they are needed, missed, and wanted to be seen, and they also always perceive the moment when they cease to be important in someone's life. They have the ability to read what is hidden behind words, to see indifference behind a friendly smile, and to recognize love behind apparent indifference. People feel everything. But they will never say it...

[Psychology]

June 15, 2024

Losing Ourselves in Relationships: The Importance of Self-Care

How we lose ourselves in relationships. Sometimes it seems to us that loving someone means completely dissolving in that person, but self-sacrifice often lies at the core of codependent relationships and different forms of violence. We forget about our own interests. Harmonious relationships are not about dominance and submission. It is a union of two complete individuals, each with their own interests, desires, and goals. But if one partner consistently gives up their desires for the sake of the other, it's already a warning sign. Such a person may even sacrifice their career, forget about their favorite hobbies, and other important things to them. Don't forget about yourself, try to find time for your own desires too.

[Psychology]

June 15, 2024

What can I do with other people?

Nothing. But I can choose not to share secrets with those who spill them. I can avoid being where I'm not welcome and where I'm made to feel small. I can stop expecting anything from those who have made no promises and from those who are unable or unwilling to give anything. I can refuse to help those who turn my voluntary assistance into my immediate obligation. I can avoid building relationships with those who break me in the process. I can refrain from associating with those who manage to consume my emotions and nerves within an hour. I can disregard those who have devalued me. And I can choose not to love those who feed off my love.

[Psychology]

June 15, 2024

Building Plans Together

Build plans together. We are all very busy with life, and sometimes it seems like the whole world is trying to keep you away from your husband. But instead of looking for someone to blame or putting it all on work, plan time together. Let it start with one evening a week when you will definitely set aside all your tasks and be alone together. Then, more and more. It can be at least 10 minutes with a cup of coffee in the morning, but if it becomes a joint habit, it's already a plus. It is also helpful to know each other's schedules, what you have planned, to support each other on important days.

[Psychology]

June 15, 2024

Why Do People Blink Frequently?

Frequent blinking is a sign of anxiety. Some individuals start blinking rapidly when they feel nervous. As most people strive to establish eye contact, your nervousness becomes evident to others. Be aware of when you start to worry and blink, especially if you are in close proximity to a conversation partner.

[Psychology]

June 15, 2024

The Claim for Exclusion

Deep down, we all believe that we have grounds to be resentful towards fate and nature for the damage caused to us, both innate and inflicted during childhood; we all demand compensation for the insults inflicted on our self-esteem in our youth. From this stems the claim for exclusion, the right to disregard the doubts and fears that hold back other people. Sigmund Freud.

[Psychology]

June 14, 2024

From Love to Hate: The Disillusionment

One step from love to hate. But why? Why can we suddenly start to hate a person whom just a couple of weeks ago we couldn't imagine our life without? It's very simple, we get DISILLUSIONED. The reasons can be serious, obvious, such as betrayal, or sometimes we are just powerless, looking at the person and saying: why did I love him?! It hurts and offends us that we gave our love to the wrong person, that's the whole reason.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

The Meaning of Happiness

Do you know what happiness means? It's not something you should wait for your whole life, and it doesn't necessarily require earning millions. Happiness is when life gives you all the chances, and you make the most of them. Value those who are by your side. Any difficulties present us with a lesson, open our eyes, and provide food for thought. Look around. Who asks you every day how you are? Who, knowing that you're in a bad mood, tries to lift it and calm you down? Who can chat with you for hours on end? Hug them tighter.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

Don't Give Up: Transform Your Life

Imagine how your life will change if you don't give up. If you continue to work on yourself every day. Sometimes it will be hard: sleepless nights, burnout, stepping out of your comfort zone, but if you reach the end, you will be very proud of yourself. Everyone will be shocked by how you have changed and the leap you have made. Don't stop! Don't listen to negative thoughts in your head, just keep moving forward.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

Why do girls choose bad guys?

Why do girls choose bad guys? Bad boys are so attractive to girls because they are alpha males in the human world. A bad guy is bold, daring, ready to take action that other guys don't even consider, free-spirited, with his own opinion, and always rebelling. But it is precisely those qualities that attract you that won't allow you to build long-lasting and stable relationships with him.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

The Influence of Phenylethylamine on the Thoughts of a Person in Love

Chemical substance phenylethylamine affects the thoughts of a person in love. When it is released into the bloodstream, the individual experiences an emotional uplift, a sense of sympathy. When seeing the object of their love, the level of phenylethylamine increases in the blood, and it sharply drops during separation or parting. Afterward, the body starts experiencing a peculiar pang. That is why people who love each other constantly think about each other and feel longing if they are apart for a long time.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

Do you know your loved one?

We hardly know each other at all, just the name, workplace, parents, and what's on social media. We don't communicate, don't share our secrets, and the scariest part is that we don't want to know. Sometimes it's frightening to realize that the closest person is a complete stranger. What do you like? What do you love? What were you passionate about before? What are your goals? Shall we get to know each other? I really want to know you...

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

The Power of Unconditional Love

You cannot love a person only when they are in a good mood, making you happy and bringing you joy. If you truly love someone, you must love their sadness and bad mood too. Love them when they are silent, angry, and rude - that's when they need your love the most. True love softens even the hardest of hearts, calming any emotional storm.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

Wait, Search, and Resist the Temptation to Be with Anyone

Wait, search, and resist the temptation to be with just anyone. Nature has planned everything for us. It has given each of us our own person. And each of us will recognize them. With our heart. With our soul. We will feel it somewhere inside. Your person will take you by the hand and everything will become clear. No need for thoughts, doubts, or weighing options - 'what if it's him, what if it's not him'. Everything will become clear on its own. Like drinking, breathing, walking. The key is to resist the temptation to be with just anyone. Don't miss out on your happiness.

[Psychology]

June 12, 2024

Wings of Love

Only the one who gives wings to a woman can soar with her and fly for as long as they want. Sometimes men themselves tear off those wings and then wonder why she has become such a witch. Why she flies on a broomstick instead of the wings of love. But it's simple, you yourself tore off her wings with your actions, with your lies. So why do you expect easiness and love?

[Psychology]

June 11, 2024

The Burden of Lies: The Mental Effort of Deception

Lying requires more mental effort than telling the truth. When we speak falsehoods, we inadvertently contemplate whether they will align with our overall narrative, as well as worry about the impact even the smallest lie might have on our lives, relationships, and credibility. Conversely, honesty has little to no negative consequences.

[Psychology]

June 11, 2024