Family is Emotional Closeness

If two people live together, that doesn't mean they are a family. And if there are children, that still doesn't make the two a family. Stamps in passports even less so. Emotional closeness makes a couple a family. If it's not there, a man and a woman can live together under one roof for years, raise children, host guests and relatives, visit each other, give each other gifts, sometimes even travel with the whole family, but still NOT be a family. They are just lonely cohabitants who live parallel lives in parallel universes. Staying in such relationships, comforting oneself with the thought that it is supposedly convenient and comfortable, means living life in vain. Because that convenience and comfort is the convenience of a grave.

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July 22, 2024

Four Rituals to Get Closer

Regular joint activities strengthen the bond and create a special atmosphere in the relationship. Here are some ideas you can incorporate into your daily life: 1. Daily hugs and kisses. Start and end the day with hugs and kisses. This is a simple yet effective way to show your partner your love and care. 2. Joint dinners. Have at least one joint dinner per week without distractions. Use this time to communicate, discuss the day's events, and plan for the future.

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July 22, 2024

Four Rituals to Get Closer

3. Weekly Dates. Set aside time for weekly dates to refresh the romance in your relationship. Regular dates help maintain the spark. 4. Shared Bedtime Rituals. For example, reading a book aloud, discussing the day, or simply spending time together in bed. These simple rituals will help you get closer and strengthen your bond.

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July 22, 2024

9 Realizations That Will Change Your Life

1. The more grateful you are, the more you attract things to be grateful for. 2. Success is 5% intellect and 95% perseverance. 3. Sometimes happiness is not getting what you want. 4. You can always change your mind. 5. Life is not about finding yourself, but about creating yourself. 6. You will never experience the same moment twice. 7. Loneliness is an opportunity to reinvent yourself. 8. You create your own reality. 9. Discipline = Motivation.

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July 22, 2024

If the heart is to be filled with anything, it should be love.

If the heart is to be filled with anything, it should be love. Do not hold onto malice, it wrinkles and ages the heart prematurely. When you speak to people, say only what is bright and good. Harsh words blacken the soul and cover it with soot. When interacting with the world, do so with tenderness. Roughness makes the world hostile toward us. Love, give each other kindness, love, tenderness, and smiles.

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July 22, 2024

Live in the Now

Don't put on the past, it's no longer there—neither the bad nor the good. Don't regret the lost youth, don't mourn the missed opportunities, the undone, the unsaid—let go, forget. There is no past. There is no future either. I am only here and once. Live now. Love today. Rejoice with those who are near. Don't try on someone else's life, for the life of your past self is no longer yours... You can drown in the past, get lost in the future, and miss the joy, beauty and love that are right here, close by, lurking and waiting for an encouraging glance, a blessing gesture.

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July 22, 2024

Wisdom of the Day

Most people expect that everything will change tomorrow. But tomorrow will never come. Never. Every morning you wake up, and it is today. Tomorrow does not exist. Your life will always depend only on what you do today!

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July 22, 2024

Three reasons why men don't talk about their feelings

Many women complain that men do not express their love in words, do not shower them with compliments from morning till night, and do not say I love you every day. But why don't men do this? 1. Difference in perception. Women often establish a connection through communication and emotional exchange, while men prefer actions, tactile contact, and sex. For men, sex can be a way to establish closeness and connection!

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July 20, 2024

Three Reasons Why Men Don't Talk About Their Feelings

2. Male shutdown in response to a woman's actions. Sometimes women express dissatisfaction to improve the relationship - they shout, accuse men, etc. However, the partner may perceive it as criticism and feel like a failure. In such situations, the man might shut down emotionally. 3. Disappointment and dissatisfaction of the man. He may bottle up his hurts and dissatisfactions for a long time. Ultimately, the accumulated weight can become too heavy, and the man might simply leave without explanation.

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July 20, 2024

Decide!

Until you make a final decision, you will be tormented by doubts. You will constantly remember that there is a chance to turn back, and this will prevent you from working effectively. But the moment you decide to fully commit yourself to your cause, providence will be on your side. Things will start happening that could not happen under other circumstances… Whatever you can do, or whatever you dream of, start doing it. Courage gives a person strength and even magical power. Decide!

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July 19, 2024

5 Worst Ways to Mend a Relationship

Sometimes, in an attempt to improve the situation, we might choose incorrect methods that only exacerbate the problems. 1. Ignoring problems. Closing your eyes to problems and hoping they resolve on their own is a sure way to worsen a relationship. 2. Manipulation and ultimatums. These methods create tension and distrust instead of fostering open and honest dialogue. 3. Excessive criticism and blame. Constructive criticism should aim at resolving the issue, not blaming the partner for their shortcomings. 4. Ignoring your own needs. Sacrificing your needs for the partner may seem noble, but in the long run, it leads to accumulated negativity and dissatisfaction. 5. Comparing with other couples. Every relationship is unique, and it is important to focus on your own characteristics and values rather than striving for someone else's ideals. Avoid these bad methods and focus on healthy and constructive approaches to strengthen your relationship.

[Psychology]

July 19, 2024

Dungeons & Dragons included in treatment procedures to improve mental health

The tabletop game helps with quick socialization, distraction from reality, as well as stimulating self-awareness and creative thinking.

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July 19, 2024

How to Improve Your Discipline

Define Your Goal: What exactly do you want to change? Set a specific, measurable, and achievable goal that will motivate you. Create a Strategy: Break down your goal into small, manageable steps. Write an action plan where each point brings you closer to achieving your goal. Set Deadlines: Establish timeframes for each step. Deadlines help create a sense of urgency and prevent you from procrastinating. Discipline is not a gift, but a skill that requires practice. Start today! Your fate is in your hands.

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July 19, 2024

What Does Tilting the Head Back Mean?

Tilting the head back most often occurs as a reaction to a corresponding stimulus. It demonstrates courage. Combined with a piercing gaze, tilting the head back gives an impression of challenge, and when the entire body turns toward the partner, it appears intrusive. The more abrupt the movement, the more nervous excitement it contains, which can express a decisive protest and an insult to honor or self-esteem. With a calm execution, it can indicate a sense of superiority, masculinity, or readiness for activity. It can also express a silent invitation or an unspoken question.

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July 19, 2024

A Special Evening

In everyone's life, there is one evening somehow connected with time, memory, and a song. One day, it must definitely come - it will arrive spontaneously, and once it ends, it will fade and never repeat exactly the same way again. All attempts to recreate it are doomed to failure. But when such an evening comes, it is so beautiful that you remember it for the rest of your life. (Ray Bradbury)

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July 19, 2024

Learn to take care of your inner WELL-BEING

At first, you learn to take care of your inner WELL-BEING. You wrap it in warm thoughts and feelings, feed it only with delicious images. You stand guard, filtering out the unnecessary. You strengthen it with strong focus. You make it firm, stable, powerful — on a universal scale! And then everything changes — and the well-practiced Well-being takes care of you. It attracts the best meetings, the best events, the best manifestations. It grandly spins the vortex of your dreams and turns into physical Splendid, Abundant, Luxurious.

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July 19, 2024

The Warmth of a Man

It's nice when you look at a man and feel warm inside... You observe how he talks, moves, smiles, eats, fixes something, laughs at your jokes, how his muscles move, how he draws you in, how he tenderly and protectively hugs you, how skillfully and delightfully he has sex with you, how cute he looks in the morning, how confidently he talks to someone at work and changes his tone when addressing you, how he sometimes unexpectedly offers help in things you don't anticipate. You are surprised. You observe. Quietly you smile inside. You are happy. There are men who make you feel warm, calm, sweet, and pleasant inside... And there is no need to rush or change anything. Everything is already... good.

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July 19, 2024

A Sign of His Affection

He liked you. A partner opens up to you when you have impressed him. But there is one BUT. Of course, if during the first meeting a man starts unloading all his emotional baggage or problems on you, it should be more of a warning sign. However, when a young man engages in a pleasant conversation and talks easily about his work, his parents and his relationship with them, his friends, and so on, it's a very, very good sign. Think about it, if a man had no real affection for you, why would he lift the veil on his private life?

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July 16, 2024

The Habit of Missing

Develop a habit of missing your partner by remembering everything you love about them. However, the task becomes a bit more complicated if they are right next to you at that moment. Therefore, try to plan your leisure time in such a way that you manage to go to the movies with friends, have lunch with colleagues, and in the evening be a happy person who has managed to miss their partner!

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July 16, 2024

A Day Full of Happiness

Make every day a positive day, a day of happiness, a day of growth, a day with friends, not just with old habits. Do you understand what I mean? Be alive, seek what you want, do what moves you, take that happiness and joy and share it with others, treat everyone around you well (Lama Ole Nydahl).

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July 16, 2024