Valuable Connections

It is important to us that we are understood. What we talk about, write about, think, and even dream about. To have our silence understood, shared with us, and broken when necessary. Cherish the people who accept you with all your quirks, changing moods, and oddities. Cherish them at least because these are the people who know you better than anyone else and stay by your side no matter what.

The First Step. Why Not?

The first step. Why not? Even if you are a woman. You shouldn't be too pushy, but in the modern world, it's quite acceptable for a woman to make the first call or invite someone on a date. Such boldness and confidence in your own abilities will definitely be appreciated. Moreover, most men are very happy about it, as it shows them that you are interested in them. Therefore, he may start showing you attention on his own in the future.

Can we really love?

Can we really love? After all, no one teaches us this. Perhaps it would be more correct to teach not chemistry, but the art of love in school. It would be great if we were taught to listen, and at least to try to understand a person. After all, our mothers convince us from childhood that we are the best and everyone around must love us as we are. But no one tells us how we should love, what the meaning of love is. And we end up with thousands of lonely women and men who do not know what they want from life.

Support Your Loved Ones

Support your loved ones. Even the smallest praise from your mouth, which may seem insignificant to you, can mean a lot to the person for whom it is said at the right moment. The support of a loved one is an incredibly valuable resource.

Respect

Respect is one of the fundamental qualities valued in relationships. When you can express respect for your partner: their opinions, feelings, space, and personal boundaries, it creates a foundation for a deep and trusting relationship. Without respect, it is impossible to build deep and long-term trusting relationships.

Long-standing Resentment Towards a Partner

Long-standing resentment towards a partner is usually manipulation. Even if the person has hurt you very badly and you can't forgive them, think about why you are in this state of resentment. As a rule, this means that you are expecting something from them that will change your opinion of them. But if it is so difficult for you to forgive the situation, you may not be able to forgive it. And if you want to hear something specific from your partner, it's better to ask them directly.

All in due time

You will get everything done. Don't listen to phrases about ticking clocks. Don't react to provocations that it will be too late later. It's not true. Everything has its own time. And if our desires are not fulfilled, it means that the time simply hasn't come. It is waiting for us to be ready.

What to Avoid in a Relationship

Control and accusations. No one likes their personal space to be invaded, especially when trust is lacking. Try to trust your partner, and if you feel there is a reason to suspect them of something, it is better to talk first. Comparisons and belittlement. Do not compare your partner with others around you, especially with ex-partners, as you might deeply hurt the other. Lack of dialogue. Talk with your loved one, discuss what is happening around you, share your thoughts, and learn their viewpoint.

The Power of Positive Attitude

If you are hostile towards the world, it will respond in kind. If you continuously express your dissatisfaction, reasons for it will keep increasing. If negativity dominates your attitude towards reality, the world will turn its worst side to you. Conversely, a positive attitude will naturally change your life for the better. You get what you choose. That's the reality, whether you like it or not. Develop the 'stupid' habit of rejoicing at failures. It is much more fun than getting irritated and whining at every occasion.

How to Identify a Resourceful Man for a Relationship

1. He always has goals and plans for his life. 2. He improves and develops himself. 3. His word is valuable, not just talk. A man who says something does it. 4. More actions, fewer words. 5. He can solve problems and make decisions. 6. He always calls and informs if plans change. It's a matter of respect. He respects himself, so he respects you. 7. He invests his resources in the woman: time, emotions, money, provides protection and security. 8. He is ready to take responsibility for the woman and the family. 9. He respects the personal boundaries of the woman. 10. He values his woman because he respects his choice. He is interested in the woman's preferences.

Remember Once and For All

Remember once and for all that you don't need to beg for love from those who are unable to express this wonderful feeling. You don't need to ask to meet, to call, to come over, to buy medicine, to order pizza, to take you to the doctor, to cook meals, to clean the apartment, and everything else. When someone truly cares, perhaps even loves, you don't need to ask. This applies to both women and men. And begging for love and attention means training the one with whom you plan to create a family and build relationships. Don't forget that you will always be a priority if you are needed, valued, and loved.

A Special Kind of Love

There is a special kind of love. When you are loved in such a way that you remember your true self, long forgotten by yourself. It is not an overwhelming feeling that sweeps you off your feet. Quite the opposite. It is a love that helps you see yourself because you are loved. It is the feeling when, thanks to one person, you find what you have hidden from everyone for so long and have forgotten yourself how unique you are. It happens the moment you meet someone who sees you for who you truly are. Who does not try to change or break you, and you feel that you become better in their presence. You are not playing. You become yourself again. You can love yourself and another person again because it is this kind of Love that helps you uncover yourself. We are always magnetically drawn to those who bring out the “real you.”

Signs of Healthy Jealousy

Healthy jealousy is a reaction that arises when our relationships are threatened. When experiencing healthy jealousy, we are capable of taking reasonable actions aimed at protecting our relationships. Here are the points by which you can understand that you are experiencing healthy jealousy: 1. The person acknowledges their jealousy, admits it, and takes responsibility for their feelings and emotions. 2. The person may ask you to help them cope with this feeling but does not require you to radically change your life.

Life is not a movie

I know that life is not a movie — there are no takes that can be reshot, replayed, and perfected. But there are moments that cannot be fixed or repeated. I know that there are sweet and bitter times. I know that happiness is the cruelest of illusions, the most beautiful fairy tales end in complete collapse, people leave, any unions are not eternal, and the worst betrayals always have the most familiar eyes.

Moving Forward in Life

As you travel along the road of life, you must learn to leave behind without regret everything that hinders your progress: bad memories and old grudges, past mistakes and former disappointments, and most importantly — people who have proven through their words and actions that you are no longer on the same path with them...

Why Love at All?

Why love at all if it will likely hurt in the end? I think you need to accept it as one of the outcomes of your relationship. It will hurt, but not necessarily. The point is not to focus on this question at all – it could drive you crazy. And you could lose all meaning in everything. Missing out on an opportunity like love is very sad due to such prejudices. The point is not to suffer because of what might happen in the future, but to enjoy the here and now. Do not be afraid to love and be loved!

About Male Love and Women's Wishes

When a man spends the night with a woman, it speaks of passion. When he dines with her, it shows his interest. When he is jealous, he shows his seriousness. But male love begins with caring for his woman. How is male love measured? By gifts? By care? By attention? Every woman has her own yardstick. I think when a man loves, he is always on your side in front of the rest of the world, even if you are wrong a thousand times. A man is the one who can piece together even a shattered heart and be proud that he managed to win the love of the one he truly needs. That's a woman's happiness, to be a whimsical woman in the hands of a caring man. Don't lose the woman who continues to love you despite your flaws. Women have only 3 wishes from a man. If you think it’s an apartment, a car, and a fur coat, you are mistaken. It is loyalty, gratitude, and attention.

Do you notice the little things that make our love more important?

For example, when the door is closed so quietly not to wake anyone. Or how they taste the tea before handing over the cup. How they let you eat the cherry from their cocktail. How they leave the last sip of water in the bottle when you're thirsty. How they get up a bit earlier in the morning to prepare breakfast and tiptoe around. How they gently stroke you to help you fall asleep faster. Love is in these tender little things when you pay attention to them.

Forget All Negative Emotions

Emotions can be compared to waves that come and go. Try to imagine an emotion as a wave. And remember, waves come and go. The same happens with emotions: they come and go. It is important to describe and perceive emotions with words. Then we begin to recognize them and understand that we are capable of withstanding them. Over time, they lose their intensity.

Should you confess your love to your girlfriend?

Should you confess your love to your girlfriend? Definitely, and there are several reasons for that: She expects the decisive step from the guy and is unlikely to be the first to speak about her feelings; If you are dating but haven't talked about your love yet, she does not understand the nature of your relationship and your intentions are not fully clear to her; Women love with their ears. It sounds cliché, but it's true. Even if you have proven your feelings a hundred times through actions, reinforce them with words as well – your girlfriend is waiting for that! However, not all situations are clear-cut. If you feel the risk of rejection, don't rush.