Success is not a roulette wheel

Success is a consistent sequence of your actions, your choices and decisions. And those that you take literally every day. On the way to success, the first thing you should pay attention to is your environment. Friends are not chosen - a cliché imposed by the lazy part of society. Friends are still chosen! Think for yourself, is it possible for you to achieve your goals if you constantly surround yourself with whiners or lazy people? Of course not! After all, with them you will either complain about life, or compare yourself with others, discuss the life of others, but at the same time not improve your own. The environment raises a person to a certain level, or lowers him below the plinth. If you have seriously decided that you want to be a successful person, then reconsider your environment. Analyze what you get from interacting with people and how you feel when you are around them. The ideal option is to surround yourself with strong personalities who motivate you.

Another secret to success lies in your head

Or rather, in the habit of thinking in a certain way, thinking in such a way as to set yourself up for great results. Your opponent in this is negative beliefs. But we will stick to a cunning tactic, because we know that we also need to accept the negative, and not panic and try to completely exclude it from our thoughts. Step by step, you can change negative attitudes to positive ones. Only if you follow your thoughts! The easiest way to do this is through meditation, where you allow the flow of thoughts to flow. With daily practice, negative thoughts go away by themselves.

Fear or Opportunity?

Fears are an adequate reaction of the body to something new, to something that once caused unpleasant consequences, or to something that directly or indirectly threatens a person’s life. But there are fears that just need to be overcome. For example, if you have an idea, but to realize it, you lack the courage, and therefore perseverance. It is behind such fears that your invaluable potential lies. The organism never generates ideas for the implementation of which it would not have enough resources. Our thoughts are not random. Think about what opportunities will open up for you after overcoming fear. Represented? Now act!

Use knowledge!

How to win any dispute using scientific terms. Special terminology in speech complicates the understanding of the expressed thought, slows down the reaction of the answer. He attaches great importance to the topic under discussion, brings the discussion to the plane of scientific theory. The enemy must “reach out” to the established level of knowledge, but it is rarely possible to quickly orientate. The person avoids questions, is embarrassed. Or he agrees with the opponent's opinion as more competent. Talk fast. Speeding up the pace of speech. The accelerated pace of speech excludes the full, adequate perception, understanding of information. It is impossible to give a quick answer or come up with a logical objection.

Illusions of perception

Illusions of perception are a distorted assessment of real images, their inconsistency with what they really are. Illusions can occur at the level of any of the senses - they are auditory, tactile, gustatory, olfactory, visual. Illusions of inattention: Illusions of inattention arise when there is insufficient concentration of attention or when there is a lack of information, that is, in conditions that make it difficult to perceive (strong noise, poor lighting, a significant distance of the object, etc.). For example, at a party where loud music is playing, instead of one word, another is heard. From afar, you can take a stranger for a friend, etc.

How to deal with negative mood?

Find a source of good mood. Think about what makes you feel happy, what energizes you. Communication with children, going to the park, watching your favorite movie? You can even make a list of "100 things that make me feel good." Constantly replenish it and daily try to do something from what is written in it. The most important source of good mood is yourself. It is you who determines your state, and you can always change it. Take a break from work for 5 minutes, sit back and tune yourself to the desired wave.

An interesting discovery in psychology

Work activity before 10 am causes stress in the body: Discoveries in psychology sometimes confirm what we all know for so long: Dr. Paul Kelley (Oxford) published his research data in 2014 - the scientist studied the biorhythms of people of both sexes aged 20-55 years. According to the results of this study, the beginning of vigorous activity before 10 am is absolutely contrary to the natural rhythms of a person, he works inefficiently, gets tired faster and, in general, all this harms the global economy.

What are complexes?

A complex is a formed set of distortions present in a person's perception of himself. The authors decipher this concept as "a set of thoughts and ideas that are not controlled or not completely controlled by the human mind." Basically, all complexes come from childhood. There are innate complexes that a person has to outgrow and mature, such as the Oedipus complex and the inferiority complex. But many get stuck in them and carry them into adulthood.

WHAT WOMEN ARE MEN FEARED

There are a number of female traits that scare men: self-serving This is due to the fear of being used and abandoned. Men, like women, are prone to love and they also need to feel needed. emotional Yes, most women are really emotional, but men are scared off by those women who are always guided only by their feelings, and not by their head. Beautiful No matter how paradoxical it may sound, men are really afraid of overly beautiful women. For them, it is like something unattainable and inaccessible. Especially for those with low self-esteem.

Life hits everyone

But some give up, while others resist. And only a few learn the lesson and move on. Such people rejoice in the blows of life. For them, every hit means they need to learn something new. They learn and move on. Most just give up, and some fight.

Every woman is like a flower

And as you know, every flower requires care, warmth, attention, care and love. If this is not the case, then the flower withers, withers, dies. And then, no matter how you care, no matter how you look after, nothing will help. The flower will no longer bloom. And so is the woman. It blooms only when it is taken care of, cared for, paid attention and loved. Well, if you at least once allow you to neglect and forget about it, then do not be surprised that instead of the rare beauty of a flower, you will see an ordinary thorn. A woman needs attention, love and care every day, not from time to time. Love and take care of her, then she will bloom all year round.

7 quotes for today

1. Shame in front of people is a good feeling, but the best thing is shame in front of yourself. 2. Everyone wants to change humanity, but no one thinks about how to change themselves. 3. Everything comes to those who know how to wait. 4. All happy families are alike, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. 5. Strong people are always simple. 6. Let everyone sweep before his door. If everyone does this, the whole street will be clean. 7. We always seem to be loved for being so good. And we do not guess that they love us because those who love us are good.

WHAT IS THE PURCHASE OF HAPPINESS?

1. In silence. Learn to never tell anyone anything about yourself. Neither about the past, nor about the present, nor about plans for the future. As little information as possible about yourself. 2. A secretive person is a calm person. Such a person is not afraid of anything behind his back, whatever they say to him good or bad. He doesn't care. He lives and silently does his work. 3. Be confident and persistent. Never be seduced by illusions and dreams, never expect anything from others. You can do it now! 4. Don't ask anyone for help. Help yourself. And live in silence. Tixo. Mirno. Happy. 5. Never regret anything for yourself! Do not dream about a new tablet for 1000 dollars, but take it, earn money and buy it for yourself. Live freely and beautifully to the maximum! 6. Always be a Human, no matter what happens. Silent and kind. Honest. Know your price. And live by yourself. Not one extra word. Not one extra sound about a bad life. Bot and all.

Never listen to losers

Never listen to those who say that all men are goats, all women are whores, people are rotten, life is a nightmare, marriage is a trap, love is shit, and so on. We are used to fear instinctively. Judge for yourself: listening to such people, we simply take advice from losers! These are their lives, their problems, and I don’t want to humiliate them, but you can’t listen to them, it’s like looking for an answer to the question of whether it’s worth living from a suicide.

Ideal relationship - what is it?

The ideal relationship is when you see each other as idols. You are the goddess of beauty for him, he is the god of sex for you. Why so primitive? Because, in fact, nothing excites the female consciousness as much as a man endlessly admired by her. Nothing excites the male consciousness so much as a woman who endlessly desires him.

Reflective learning

Reflective learning (practice) is an active, dynamic, action-based and ethical set of skills applied in real time to deal with actual, complex and difficult situations that arise not only in the learning process, but also in everyday life. Reflective practice is the reflection of a person about what he is doing. It is closely related to the concept of learning by doing, since decisions about future behavior are made on the basis of past experiences.

Mnemonics

Mnemonics is a set of special techniques for memorizing information. This word has ancient Greek roots, i.e. the art of memorization interested people very many years ago. In particular, the well-known public speeches of ancient Greek orators, which gave rise to the science of rhetoric, sometimes lasted more than one hour. How did philosophers, politicians and other public figures keep so much information in their heads? Mnemonics is the key to this riddle. Usually, various categories of adults resort to exercises in mnemonics, in particular: - people who study foreign languages; - students who need to memorize a large array of knowledge while learning; - employees whose activities are related to numbers, statistics; - scientists trying to remember as much information as possible, to connect it;

Stop feeling sorry for yourself!

You feel sorry for yourself because you are afraid. To admit one's weaknesses and not feel sorry for oneself for them means to admit one's inferiority, the inferiority of one's own personality. Nothing helps to cope with anxiety, apathy and fears like a good workout. After all, our brain is completely material, which means that consciousness can be influenced through the body.

Method 50/30/20

The essence of this savings method is to spend half of the income on basic needs, about a third on entertainment and everything that gives you pleasure from life, and save 20% as savings. This is what psychologist and financial consultant Alexa von advises to do. She believes that the budget should not be synonymous with deprivation. The budget is designed to achieve important financial goals, and also to enjoy the money you earn. The distribution of funds according to the 50/30/20 method will allow you to effectively save money without compromising your ordinary life.

Have you ever noticed how girls defiantly straighten their backs?

And they do it at the moment when you approach or just start talking to them. What do you think it says? Those who mentally answered "about arrogance" - you are, fortunately, wrong. The girl will look up at the sight of you because she feels sympathy! Yes, that's the way people are. After all, if you noticed, we ourselves (unbeknownst to ourselves) are trying to draw in the stomach and straighten our back). So, remember this non-verbal sign of her affection.