Any resistance can be manipulated.

I think you've met people who put their remarks everywhere and rebut everything they see. - I bought a car! - Congratulations, but white is impractical. But you can make them resist their own resistance. - I have a case for you, but you're probably not interested in it. - Why? Tell me! And do you think this person will take the information? Of course she or he will just devour it.

Learn to speak beautifully.

This is the way to convince others. Well, do you agree that if a politician doesn't stammer or mix up words, gives examples, uses turns and epithets, he inspires much more trust than a person who reads from a paper and has problems with putting two words together. In case you don't want to believe me, then believe Aristotle! By the way, this is also a kind of manipulation called "appealing to authority," but I just want to show you that manipulation originated with mankind and it is a natural part of life. It is important to change your intonation while speaking according to the subject you discuss, and this must be done discreetly, pretending that it is not artificial but natural, because natural is capable of keeping attention and persuading, while artificial is the opposite. People are suspicious of a fake speaker, as if he were plotting something against them, just as they are suspicious of poisoned wine.

Luxurious hair.

It is impossible to describe female beauty without mentioning one of its most important components - a luxurious mop of hair. Most men like women with long curls that fall over the shoulders in soft waves. Long curls are associated with femininity and tenderness, while thick and shiny hair is associated with good health. You can be blonde, brunette, red or brown, wear a short haircut - the main thing is that the hair is healthy, shiny and well-groomed. Moreover, the word “grooming” does not mean complicated hair styling at all, but only the absence of split ends, a healthy and not overdried look. A man may not notice a slightly protruding tummy, but he will definitely pay attention to your gorgeous hair.

Beautiful back.

Many ladies are sure that the back is the least attractive part of the body in the eyes of men, but they are greatly mistaken. To understand this, it is enough to recall the numerous artistic photos in the nude style, on which graceful female backs constantly flash, naked and beautiful. Another proof is evening dresses with cutouts on the back, which can instantly turn the head of even the most persistent gentleman. The fact is that the naked female back looks very defenseless and touching, causing a man to want to surround the lady of the heart with care.

Rounded hips.

A woman shaking her hips while walking always attracts attention. This part of the body looks very seductive and attractive: it is not for nothing that ladies emphasize it with tight skirts and tight trousers. Many men like young ladies with round, rather than thin, hips. The fact is that such forms are associated with motherhood. They give a man a direct signal about a woman's ability to endure and give birth to children.

Neat belly.

Some young ladies completely in vain torment themselves in gyms, trying to turn their stomach into a kind of washboard with pronounced "cubes". If you ask the opinion of the representatives of the stronger sex, it turns out that they prefer rounded tummies, soft and pleasant to the touch. Naturally, in this case we are not talking about the folds of fat formed below the waist.

Graceful feet.

A woman without shoes always looks very defenseless and touching. She seems natural and earthy, unlike the young ladies on high heels. Everyone knows that men love to admire women's legs, but bare graceful feet will definitely attract their attention. A thin ankle looks no less attractive in men's eyes. No wonder our grandmothers said that in ancient times, impressionable young men were able to lose their senses at the sight of this part of the female body, flashed in the folds of a long dress. And the thin ankles of a sweet young lady awaken a hunter in a man, who most of all dreams of captivating her heart.

Male perception.

According to psychologists, visually men perceive the fair sex completely, indiscriminately into separate zones. They instantly appreciate beautiful women, staring after them. However, the overall picture always consists of many fragments - the same applies to female attractiveness. If men did not notice all the features of the female physique, they would turn around only after the owners of a magnificent bust and thin waist. There are other parts of the body that a man will stare at. Let's find out which ones.

A wonderful "hidden" compliment.

It can be used with a girl during a date if you are in some crowded place. Park, cafe, bar, club - it doesn't matter at all. The main thing is that there are a lot of people around. And then you can use the following phrase: “Look around, just be careful. See? All the men around look at us and envy me. They are jealous that I am talking to the most beautiful girl in this bar/restaurant/park/etc. Yes, a little vanilla. Therefore, such a phrase should be used in moments, so to speak, of a romantic intensity. That is, shortly before the kiss or at the climax of the date, if there have already been kisses.

Low self-esteem.

This is a real problem that hinders the lives of many women. An insecure girl needs constant approval from her lover. "Am I beautiful?", "Am I smart?"... These phrases slowly but surely squeeze all the juice out of a man. Understand, he does not want to be a comforter or a nanny. He wants to see an inspired woman next to him, radiating positivity and confidence!

Signs that a man will not leave his wife.

Remember 6 points by which you can determine that the partner does not think to connect his life with you. 1. He does not discuss joint plans. He doesn't plan anything with you even a week ahead. 2. He doesn't confess his love to you. Revelations of a drunken romantic do not count. It has nothing to do with love. 3. He plays the victim. He is always looking for excuses, just not to leave his family?! 4. He hides you from friends. Is his best friend aware of your affair? When a man hides a girl for a long time, it is unlikely that his intentions are serious. 5. He is not interested in your life. What do you get from him besides sex? He worries, surrounds with attention? 6. He plays for time. Phrases: “Let's wait”, “I need time” are just excuses.

Ready or not, here I come, you can't hide.

I'm sorry, guys, but I'm about to give away the greatest manipulation ever. Of course, this technique is used everywhere, but the best example is relationships. Perhaps everyone has come across the following situation: you have a match with someone, things start looking up, and then he or she suddenly disappears. And then a couple of days later, "Hey, how are you?" The "loss" technique. This way, the person stimulates the other's attention so the other will do everything in order not to lose again. Such a maneuver, by the way, is very common in business relationships.

How to control a crowd easily?

I'll give you a hint that can be easily applied to any group of people or even a family. Have you ever heard about the Abilene paradox? The bottom line is that a person counter to the preferences of many very rarely. That is, first you have to pitch an idea to the particular group. For example, at the beginning of the week, make a suggestion to go to the countryside. During the week, emphasize how good it is to be outdoors. Believe me, one of the members will agree with you. And the others will be just aware of your plans. The phenomenon of groupthink is that everyone counts not their own interests. And just so you know, in team building, this paradox is called the "Fake Success of Unanimous Team Decision Making." And here's what I'd like to add: No matter how much you want it, social factors always affect your INNER SELF.

Three steps ahead.

Thinking FORWARD is a great skill, not only in business matters. Think about any situation at least three steps ahead. It helps make the right decisions, avoiding unnecessary risks. How to develop this skill? CHESS. Has it ever interested you, why many great men spent their free time studying the chess battles of the great grandmasters? That's how they learned to think three steps ahead!

Live to the fullest! Enjoy life every day!

Do whatever you want with your life. write a book, get a tattoo, dye your hair a crazy color, confess your love at last. After all, someday only a dash between two dates will remain of you, and no one knows when this will happen. live each day to the fullest. just feel the taste of freedom.

When people let you go, let them go.

People will either love or hate you anyway. No matter how hard you try to please them, no matter how much you give second chances. If he/she loves you, he/she will show it. A person will not leave you or make you wait. And if someone does not like you the way you are, there will always be others who will gladly get to know you better. Know your worth and move on!

Benefits of divorce for women

There is time for yourself. A woman (especially if there are no children in a couple) no longer needs to stand at the stove every evening, iron her shirts and wash her socks. It becomes possible to live without looking back at someone else's opinion. Many divorced women understand perfectly what I'm talking about. Either the husband does not like the red lipstick that you bought yesterday on the way home from work, or the mother-in-law makes claims about the ideal borscht or the manner of raising children. Growing career prospects. Having divorced a man, a woman begins to look for new sources of income in order to provide herself and her children with the same level of comfort. She is not afraid to take on any job, actively manifests herself and achieves success in the professional field.

Give positive emotions.

If a husband is happy next to you, will he look at others? Working on emotional fulfillment in a relationship is important. The “wow-effect” gives the greatest charge: for example, from jointly overcome difficulties. You can simply create as many bright positive memories as possible: for example, from an actively spent vacation.

It's so typical of people...waiting for happiness.

I'll start start living my best life as soon as I will finish college! I'll get my dream job and everything will change! I'll meet a real man and he'll make me happy! We're always waiting for him or her to be better, more responsible, more purposeful and then we'll be HAPPY. But alas, not out partners or circumstances make us happy. If there is no feeling of inner harmony, our acceptance of ourselves, and understanding of our own wishes and goals, then nothing can make us happier. So if you want to be happy, start with yourself!

Criticism is the best motivation.

If you are motivated to BETTER yourself, the form in which you are criticized is not a problem. Get value out of any formulation, as long as it's worth it. Where and how criticism can be useful? If your are criticized by your colleague, an expert in the field you're talking about, listen carefully. Even if she or he expresses her/himself harshly, the content may be really important. Perhaps, arguing critically and constructively, he can show you the right direction, help you look at the question from another point of view or just share fresh thoughts and ideas. And that's exactly what you need right now!