Sex with an overweight partner: myths and reality.

Sex with a partner who has a dozen or two extra pounds - is it a pleasure or a disappointment? Let's try to answer this question and debunk the top three most common "fat" myths.

Dimensions. Are they really that important?

For some reason, none of the men ever think about the fact that women never, even jokingly (in 99.99% of cases) blame their partner for the size of their genitals. And all the male inventions that “the wife was angry because of my boorish behavior, but she, in fact, had in mind something completely different, i.e., the size of my penis ...” are not taken into account by them. By the way, out of 50 women surveyed, 45 chose width as a more important indicator, and only 5 chose length.

Rescue moisture.

Insufficient amount of lubrication causes burning, vaginal itching, discomfort during intercourse. Some women even try to curtail sex as soon as possible. Meanwhile, the problem is solved simply, with the help of special tools, for example, an intimate lubricant gel. According to a study conducted by the New York Sexual Association, 80% of American women aged 17 to 50 use lubricant on a regular basis.

He must be praised.

He is the sexiest macho you will ever meet in your life - Yes, it must be said. These are the words that increase male self-esteem, and therefore male sexuality, and prevent, and even treat, some male dysfunctions.

"Dirty Massage"

You will need a blanket and massage oil. Get naked and let your partner oil you up and massage you wherever he wants. Then move on to sex. Lubrication increases sensitivity not only in the genital area, but also in the entire skin. In addition, sexual games with a masseur / masseuse are a common and powerful erotic fantasy.

American gynecologists have identified the most effective position for achieving female orgasm.

For heterosexual women, the easiest way to achieve orgasm is in the missionary position with a pillow under your pelvis. In this position, during sex, the blood flow in the clitoris increases most intensively. These conclusions were reached by gynecologists from the private American clinic New H Medical. They studied the physiological parameters of blood flow using an ultrasound scanner while a pair of volunteers had sex in five popular positions for ten minutes. The study showed that the most ineffective pose is doggy style.

Sex toys reduce sensitivity.

A decrease in sensitivity can occur due to an increase in the intensity of sensations, and over time it seems that even the maximum setting does not bring pleasure.

"Lifebuoy"

Partners stand facing each other. The man lifts the girl, holding her back, she wraps her legs around his waist. "Lifebuoy" requires good physical fitness. If it's hard for you, have sex against the wall so that the girl can lean on her back. Fitness Benefit: In this position, the main load falls on the partner: he holds the weight of both, he has to strain the press, buttocks, and arms. The partner is actively working with her hips.

Socks are more important than sexy lingerie on a woman.

The latter gives a beautiful aesthetic, and warming the legs helps to relax and enjoy more. And orgasms are 30% more likely with socks than without them. We choose natural fabrics, for example, white ones look very sexy, and check this scientific fact. Leggings and stockings will look very sexy. It's all about your imagination!

Interesting practice.

In the Netherlands, there is a practice where 3-4 young girls hire a man who deals with all of them at once. So women comprehend the basics of group sex and become liberated.

More sincerity.

No need to copy the sighs of pornstars, just allow yourself to express pleasure out loud. It doesn't mean you have to say dirty things. You can say what you like, but not in the form of a command “Stronger!”, But, for example: “I love it when you move harder.” Yes, and he will like simple ahi-sighs if they are sincere. You will be surprised how much they can inspire him to exploits.

Myth 4: All women are born goddesses of oral sex.

Oral sex and "deep throat" is not only the most desired male fantasy, but also the subject of the largest number of myths. Perhaps the main one is based on the fact that a blowjob is included in the "standard set" of bed skills for almost every girl, and all men get great pleasure from it. Not wanting to fall behind the trend, the latter are happy to support the "great deception". In reality, every second person has not tried “deep throat”, and in a private conversation with a sexologist and on anonymous forums, most admit that they are not satisfied with oral sex with their companion, because she does a blowjob carelessly or does not do it at all.

Myth 3: Women look for profit in everything.

Modern women not only got voting rights and wear trousers - they make a career and even earn no less than men. But until now, at the sight of a successful lady on an expensive car, most people think that this is just a gift. What can we say about girls who prefer courses on sex to culinary schools. Nowadays, it doesn’t even occur to many that a car can be honestly earned, and girls go to such classes to restore muscles after childbirth or surprise their husband on their anniversary.

Myth 2: Orgasms are not for everyone.

In fact, every woman has the ability to experience an orgasm. The main reason for "anorgasmia" lies in the banal absence of foreplay and insufficient duration of sexual intercourse - according to our research, almost 50% of women experience such problems. To achieve the much desired vaginal orgasm, the average woman needs about half an hour to prepare and at least 10 minutes of continuous intercourse. In addition, the likelihood of achieving such an orgasm is affected by the tone of the vaginal muscles, the psychological state, the rhythm of breathing, and the sensitivity of erogenous points. But fearing to seem frigid, women prefer to imitate multiple orgasms, depriving themselves (and their man) of full pleasure.

Myth 1: Women began to think more about sex.

The porn industry and gloss created the image of an ideal lady who (finally!) began to love sex, and the more the better. But biology is not subject to fashion, and in life, as before, women want to make love much less often than men. Scientists believe that the low level of the hormone testosterone (10-20 times lower than that of the stronger sex), which is responsible for sexual desire in both men and women, is to blame for everything.

Intimate mythology: 4 popular misconceptions about sex.

In the modern world, a woman can do everything: earn money, cook, raise children and enjoy sex. But is it really so? Let's figure it out.

Ideas for surprises in the distance:

▫️Send him a tasty treat prepared by your own hands by courier. ▫️sex on video, phone. ▫️ while he is sleeping, write him compliments in the messenger. ▫️ video of your dance in lingerie. ▫️play with him the game "truth or dare" on the video. ▫️certificate for the realization of any of his fantasies with you.

Erogenous zones of a man.

In the area of ​​the testicles of a man there are as many as 7 erogenous zones. Stimulation should be done in these areas: ▫️right and left parts of the lower side of the scrotum ▫️also the left and right parts of the top ▫️left and right sides ▫️shovchik

About the female orgasm.

The study found that women who had regular orgasms consciously focused on the sensations of their bodies. According to a poll, 83.8% of women use a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris, not vaginally.

You just have to try it in sex! 5. Mutual masturbation.

Only for brave couples! Mutual masturbation will make your mind turn off completely, and give your body the opportunity to plunge into the world of pleasure. It is easy to try mutual masturbation, sitting opposite each other, within reach of intimate areas. For convenience, you can use a lubricant. Having tuned in to the right tone, you can achieve a simultaneous orgasm.