Are We Still Faking Orgasms?

Are we still faking orgasms? Yes, but it's happening less often! In 2018, about 66 percent of women reported having ever faked a climax. In 2019, this number "only" reached 55 percent. Although this figure is still too high, we are beginning to understand that the performance in bed doesn't help anyone. Especially not ourselves. And by the way: even 19 percent of men admit to faking an orgasm. Wouldn't it be simpler to know your body so well that you clearly understand your needs?

Subtleties of Oral Sex

Every man likes watching a woman give him oral sex. Therefore, everything should be arranged so that he can see the process. The ideal position: the woman gets on her knees (it’s better to place something soft under them) while the man stands or sits. This position emphasizes male dominance over the woman during sex (which is extremely important for men).

Men's Mistakes During Cunnilingus

1. Wild licking. The clitoris is very sensitive. Jumping straight to it can be exciting, but it's usually better to go slowly. Start by caressing and kissing her breasts, stomach, and legs. Be cautious and figure out what pressure you can apply to her clitoris with your tongue or fingers to make her comfortable. 2. Get to the point. There are hardly any universal recommendations applicable to all women's preferences. A very important principle: be decisive and focused. Concentrate on what you are doing. 3. Listen to her. By her tension and moans, you will gradually learn what she likes. 4. Don't focus on the orgasm. Many men try to bring a woman to orgasm as quickly as possible and then get disappointed when it doesn't happen. But women always notice a partner's impatience.

Undress Beautifully

Undressing should be done beautifully. Have you ever watched how lesbians undress? Well, they take their clothes off slowly and carefully, delicately undoing the hooks of their underwear – guaranteed to cause blood to rush from the head! In short: if you can take off her underwear without tearing or stretching anything – she's yours! And if something doesn't go as planned, the main thing is not to worry, it's better to play it off and say you're afraid of ruining such beauty. Let her do it herself and you watch and remember. For the next time, so to speak.

On the Carpet

On the carpet. Ideally clean and with a soft pile. It is cozy, impossible to fall and get injured unless you roll over and make sudden movements in a tight room filled with furniture with sharp corners. According to experts, it is best for the partner to sit on the carpet, so that their back touches the wall or sofa. The girl should lie down, lean on her elbows, and raise her legs up, for example, onto the man's shoulders. This position invites slowness, enjoyment of the opening views, and aromas.

Smart Men Suffer Less from Impotence

Scientists claim that geeks make better romantic partners than, for instance, jocks. Men with higher IQs are less likely to be violent towards their partners. Overall, cognitive skills help them keep their emotional impulses in check and consider the consequences of their actions.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

Anal sex holds a leading position in the list of sexual goals that men feel compelled to try. However, their plans do not always align with women's desires. So why are men so captivated by the idea of knocking on women’s back doors? Sex experts have had to delve deeply into men's opinions, and here are the arguments they ultimately present.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#1. Forbidden Fruit. Throughout history, anal sex has always been shrouded in the allure of forbidden fruit. Overcoming this taboo ignites the imagination and puts men on high alert. Women's resistance further fuels the interest, resulting in a devilish mix of desires steeped in intrigue, prohibition, excitement, and a cat-and-mouse game in the pursuit of the desired sexual prey.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#2. The Influence of Pornography. Too many men today associate porn with real sex and take everything that happens there as a guide to action. They create a particular standard of sexual life and want to match their own experiences with the ideas obtained during viewing in an aroused state. This directly applies to anal sex as well. Nowadays, this type is present in every porn (or almost every one). It has become a standard. Most guys have seen how it happens even if they weren't specifically looking for it. In porn, it is presented to them on a platter and gives them an idea, which is carried over into reality.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#3. He Thinks Everyone Is Doing It. Anal sex has become almost the most prevalent form of pornography. In this context, guys get the impression that this activity is an integral part of sex between partners, that everyone does it, and therefore it must definitely be included.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

No. 4. Sense of Power. Anal sex provides men with the opportunity to indulge their dominant ego and gives a sense of power. This works equally well for different reasons and both for dominant men and for those who do not typically display alpha behavior in everyday life. For some, it's the satisfaction of natural hard notes in their character, for others – compensation. And both reasons are quite respectable for additionally spurring male interest.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Thrilled by Anal Sex

No. 5. Novelty. Nobody will argue that variety is a significant factor in men's sexual desires. Trying something new is especially appealing. In addition, many men perceive anal sex as a 'gift' from their partners, something rare and very special.

10 Reasons Why Men Love Anal Sex

6. Tighter Penetration. From an anatomical standpoint, lovers of this type of sex rightfully point to the tightness of this area compared to the vagina. Anal promises different sensations - tighter penetration, a firmer grip on the penis, and more noticeable friction. For men, this is very enticing.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#7. His ex liked it. While most women traditionally prefer vaginal sex, there are also some who really enjoy anal sex, and many even ask for it themselves. If a guy's ex-girlfriend enjoyed this practice, he's likely to try to introduce anal sex with a new girlfriend as well. Whether she'll like it is another question.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex.

No. 8. Reduces the chance of getting pregnant. Getting pregnant from anal sex is practically not as easy as from vaginal sex. Of course, male semen can leak and find its mischievously unwanted path. But if you think about it, we don't expect pregnancy every time we have vaginal sex.

10 Reasons Why Men Love Anal Sex

No. 9. 'Real' Sex. Everything about anal is sex for the sake of sex. It is so down-to-earth and real, leaving no room for anything unsaid between partners. The down-to-earth nature is exciting, and it is additionally stimulating that the woman gives herself to him once more.

10 Reasons Why Men Are Crazy About Anal Sex

#10. Admiration for the Female Buttocks. One of the quite compelling reasons men often cite is the extreme allure of the female 'Madame Sit'. Well, they love butts, can't get enough of them, and have many fantasies about women's soft spots, what can you do? Whether this reason is worth satisfying a man's desire is up to the woman to decide.

Americans start signing NDAs before sex

Americans have started signing NDAs before sex. Yes, this is a non-disclosure agreement under penalty of fines, much like at work. Many do not want their partner to tell others about their strange kinks, fetishes, or their skill level in bed.

Why you can't reach orgasm: 3 main reasons

1. Aftermath of childbirth. If your delivery was via cesarean section, you may have developed anorgasmia (this is the scientific term for this issue). This happens due to a lack of necessary hormones that are released naturally during childbirth. Over time, everything may recover on its own, or hormone therapy might be needed, but in any case, talk to your gynecologist about it. 2. Overuse of the vibrator. Have you been overusing it? Now you might be expecting something more from a regular man: a powerful vibrator has overstimulated you, leading to decreased sensitivity. To regain the former sensations, forget about your electric friend for a while. 3. Gynecological procedures. After radiotherapy, hysterectomy, and other gynecological procedures or surgeries, the delicate tissues of the vagina and vulva may have become scarred or simply lost sensitivity.

Overcoming Body Complexes

Many women have complexes about their figure. To overcome them, imagine that with each piece of clothing you remove, you are also removing a certain complex or worry. Thus, by unveiling your body, you will rid yourself of fears and set yourself in the right mood.